Steve Stokes Counselling And Consulting

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Steve Stokes
Steve Stokes Counselling and Consulting
Steve Stokes Counselling and Consulting University of Western Sydney
West Pymble, New South Wales, Australia 500+ 500+ connections
Steve Stokes Biography:
"Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Goethe

Steve has been working in the Addictions and Mental Health Field for 33 years. He currently runs Steve Stokes Counselling and Consulting. Steve specializes in Developmental Trauma Treatment and Complex PTSD and Affect Regulation and its relationship to all Addiction Treatment. Steve is a Certified S*x Addiction Therapist under the Supervision of Dr Alexandra Katehakis, and has been trained by Dr Patrick Carnes, Dr Stephanie Carnes, Dr Ken Adams, Doug Weiss, and Adrian Hickman as part of the IITAP Training Program. Steve facilitates one on one, couple and family therapy to address this issue and specialises. Steve facilitates ongoing Men’s S*x and Relationship Therapy Groups. Steve also facilitates couples through the Full Disclosure Process in conjunction with a Betrayal Trauma Specialist. Other modalities used include Emotional Focused Therapy for couples. Radical Exposure Therapy Advanced Level (Tapping Therapy), Brainspotting, and Supervision and Training in all aspects of treatment for Addictions specializing in S*x addiction Treatment and Co-occurring Addictions and Mental health with a specialty in Relapse Prevention and Developmental Trauma. Steve has expertise in working with Pia Melody's Developmental Immaturity Model for over 25 years, as well as the Shame reduction work of John Bradshaw, the Addiction tools of Dr Patrick Carnes and uses the Somatic Tools of Peter Levine and Pat Ogden. Steve also has been trained by Dr Laurie McKinnon for Radical Exposure Therapy (Tapping Therapy) and Brainspotting by Dr Roby Abeles and Dr David Grand. Steve also facilitates Yallom Process Groups trained and supervised by June Lake. Steve also facilitates Christian Men’s groups using the tools of Ted Roberts, Patrick Carnes, Doug Weiss, Stephen Arteburn, Neil T Andersons Freedom in Christ and Discipleship Counselling and Sheila Wray Gregoire. As part of his private practice has facilitated weekend retreats focusing on recovery issues, menswork, relationships and spirituality. Steve has also appeared as a guest therapist in Television (Real Talk, S*x Life Program) Radio and Print, as well as commentating on PTSD, Developmental Trauma, Addiction and Mental Health Treatment.

MOvember is around the corner and I will be holding some events. Here is a talk from last year given by John Lee, who wi...
16/10/2025

MOvember is around the corner and I will be holding some events. Here is a talk from last year given by John Lee, who will be speaking again on aging, From Hero to Elder.

John Lee talked to a group of Aussie men in 2024. Here is the conversation

Books:Facing the Shadow by Patrick Carneshttps://amzn.asia/d/1PoT1jhP**n ADDICTION 101https://amzn.asia/d/0NLhW7FHelp he...
01/10/2025

Books:
Facing the Shadow by Patrick Carnes
https://amzn.asia/d/1PoT1jh

P**n ADDICTION 101
https://amzn.asia/d/0NLhW7F
Help her Heal by Carol Juergensen Sheets
https://amzn.asia/d/8QxO5ld

Christian Resource:
https://puredesire.org/
(Look up Groups)

Support Groups to check out:
Samson Society
https://samsonsociety.com/
S*x Addicts Anonymous
https://www.saa-australia.org/

recovery tools:
3 circles;
https://youtu.be/KLZO6s7s0Pw
Tools for Objectification
https://youtu.be/pSjFhPIk9tc
Daily Plan for recovery
https://youtu.be/oaroUoTkuDY

tools for objections
https://youtu.be/pSjFhPIk9tc

Difficulties in Addiction and Betrayal treatment explained
https://youtu.be/nUyrpLxpgt4

AVR Formula explained to help Partners when they are triggered.
https://youtu.be/ZiGE__piVB4

Helping Her Heal Resources:


Jake porter Stay on the Coaster
https://youtu.be/KRSl8yga_zo

triggers explained
https://youtu.be/w7PvDXfLzng

Pyramid of Intimacy explained:
https://youtu.be/zmsQDqu0FOA

Relationship Check in Resources:

Safer Check In Explained.
https://youtu.be/blj15mI8_l0

FANOS Check In ( good check in format to relieve stress daily)
https://youtu.be/vaHqjrJqWNY

Recovery tool for couples rebuilding trust and intimacy after Betrayal Trauma caused by S*x Addiction. From the Book Courageous Love by Stefanie Carnes

S*x Addiction Assessment, Treatment and Recovery explainedhttps://youtu.be/LcAddo7GB2cLove Addiction , Avoidance Addicti...
22/09/2025

S*x Addiction Assessment, Treatment and Recovery explained
https://youtu.be/LcAddo7GB2c

Love Addiction , Avoidance Addiction Cycle explained
https://youtu.be/9IMyUhND0H0

Addiction cycle explained
https://youtu.be/2dlg1LYdGCA?si=Kb4aIp_BuI8QVM6x

Daily Recovery Plan
https://youtu.be/oaroUoTkuDY

7 tools of SLAA
https://youtu.be/sdcz2I7uygI

3 CIRCLE PLAN FOR ABSTINENCE
https://youtu.be/GJ0JCGeKSzs

Day 15 Movember 2022 The Three Circles Boundary tool for Addicts in Recovery. In this video I explain the Three Circle tool created by S*x Addicts Anonymous...

Nonviolent Communicationhttps://youtu.be/eF6kMJxOpvI?si=Djzhvk7yHArX_k3VReality Model xplainedhttps://youtu.be/YMwTVOAD_...
09/09/2025

Nonviolent Communication
https://youtu.be/eF6kMJxOpvI?si=Djzhvk7yHArX_k3V

Reality Model xplained
https://youtu.be/YMwTVOAD_qE?si=DiHTlWf4iqldOEad

Boundaries explained
https://youtu.be/d7hIHfgrve4?si=DzG3EK-ziZt0OwnD

Nonviolent Communication
https://youtu.be/eF6kMJxOpvI?si=Djzhvk7yHArX_k3V

Shrinking the Inner Critic
https://youtu.be/Zc0SjqJtC80?si=1H-2Elz0TBqF7Ncw
https://www.pete-walker.com/shrinkingInnerCritic.htm

5 Point Boundary System explained
https://youtu.be/nXprC0WcXbY?si=TXL5wjjD674wzo6g

This resource is from Moving Beyond Betrayal by Vicki Tidwell Palmer. You can get a copy by going to her website and she will send you one. It is also great ...

Patrick Carnes Interviews.Patrick Carnes Interview ( early)https://www.slaa.org.au/meetings/?tsml-day=any&tsml-type=MPat...
19/08/2025

Patrick Carnes Interviews.

Patrick Carnes Interview ( early)
https://www.slaa.org.au/meetings/?tsml-day=any&tsml-type=M

Patrick Carnes Last lecture Series:
Part 1:
https://youtu.be/IwFc4GxtVJ0?si=VtyTDKGfM9UmQmsD
Part 2:
https://youtu.be/8asnFSsBNkY?si=x0t4poViQmTUqcVo
Part 3:
https://youtu.be/lXnCd3SDkg4?si=Zbx7Y3YI2cPMonS7
Patrick Carnes Meadows Interview:
https://youtu.be/lh_B70Ch734?si=G4YOb3VEmKAOTVfn
Patrick Carnes . Why Treatment Works. The Heros Journey
https://youtu.be/5aKPI5sl0LE?si=x7EsjE4BWd2wIr-S

In a workshop for therapists, Dr. Carnes explains the benefits of addiction treatment and the course of recovery over time. For more information about treatm...

New Mens group using the resources of   starting in two weeks, please pass this on and message me if its right for you
22/07/2025

New Mens group using the resources of starting in two weeks, please pass this on and message me if its right for you

Just read of the passing of Pia Mellody. I owe her to much to share right now. Her work will live with me forever.
12/05/2025

Just read of the passing of Pia Mellody. I owe her to much to share right now. Her work will live with me forever.

/PRNewswire/ -- Pia Mellody, internationally recognized author, speaker, and pioneer in the fields of trauma, codependence, and addiction recovery, passed away...

PTSD Trauma LinksDr Donald Chilton:Great lecture on Neuroscience and addictionhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2yKslvPfV...
09/05/2025

PTSD Trauma Links
Dr Donald Chilton:
Great lecture on Neuroscience and addiction
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2yKslvPfV4&t=2227sDr Bessell Van Der Kolk
http://www.traumacenter.org/index.php
Bessel van der Kolk ----All Brilliant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
http://youtu.be/ymOCS5VfHZ8
http://youtu.be/SIZVJ1RrphU
http://youtu.be/N2NTADxDuhA
Peter Levine: PTSD SPECALIST Book: The Unspoken Voice
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZpZvxhk8Ew
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hP2KJ3UgDI
Stephen Porges Book: Polyvagal Theory
Polyvagal Theory. Fantastic to understand the Body’s reaction to Trauma
http://youtu.be/8tz146HQotY
Dan Siegel. Wheel of awareness- Grows new neuropathways.
http://youtu.be/ODlFhOKahmk
Mindsight-Dan siegel---- amazing man, worth a listen
http://youtu.be/B7kBgaZLHaA
www.dansiegel.com Go to resource section. Lots of great work.
Allan N Schore: Affect Regulation and Attachment conditions.
The most important years of our life-effects of Trauma on Childhood Leading Edge Professional Development
https://youtu.be/KW-S4cyEFCc?si=qlXLmNTJGL03Rxv4

From a lecture in Oslo, 28.9.2014. Full movie.Neuroscience and attachment theory. The right brain and its importance in the first years.

Great program for men to check out.
30/04/2025

Great program for men to check out.

Stouthearted is a Jesus-centered men's program addressing sexual discipleship and support. It offers an 8-week group course with teachings, stories, and practical strategies to help men overcome challenges and grow spiritually.

Toxic Shame is a Killer, heres an oldie but a Goodie.
29/04/2025

Toxic Shame is a Killer, heres an oldie but a Goodie.

In this lecture from Sydney's South Pacific Private – Australia's leading treatment center for trauma, addiction and mental health – Steve Stokes speaks abou...

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