15/12/2025
The tragedy in Bondi yesterday has shaken all of us. My heart is breaking with our community.
This was not an attack on one community, one faith or one identity. It was an attack on all of us — on our shared sense of safety, humanity and belonging as Australians.
Today I’m holding in my thoughts:
• The victims and their grieving families
• Everyone who is afraid, feeling shocked, heartbroken, angry, frightened or numb
• The witnesses, first responders and health workers
• Everyone who is feeling shocked, heartbroken, angry, frightened or numb
If you are finding it hard to sleep, feeling constantly on edge, replaying images in your mind, or noticing waves of anxiety and/or sadness, please know these are common reactions after a traumatic event.
If this is you, please reach out to others. Talk to people you trust, step away from the news and social media when it becomes too much, and seek professional support if things are not easing with time.
You do not have to carry this alone. You deserve care and support even if you “weren’t there” or feel others have it worse.
As a psychologist, I am here to offer a calm, grounded space to talk through what you’re going through, make sense of your reactions, how this has shaped your views and work out how to find connection and meaning in the middle of all of this as well as what might help you feel safer and more supported in the days and weeks ahead.
From my family to yours, I choose compassion over hate and togetherness over division.
Healing grows in care, courage and solidarity 💔