
11/01/2025
‘REFOCUS AND REFOCUS OFTEN’
My way to beat any overwhelming new year resolution rubbish and keep myself on track
I do this intentionally every month or so… but to be completely honest I think like this each week, and very often find myself having moments where I'm doing this without thinking. It is a habit and it came from the constant mum juggle, the complete and utter overwhelm of mumlife and business, my utter refusal to feel s**t about not getting to it all and my belief that you can only move forward with a high five and not a put down (and I mean of YOURSELF).
SO 🥁🥁🥁
I ‘REFOCUS’
🫶 I take a brief moment to reflect… because LOL we only have a brief moment right. Either in the car, with a cuppa in between 2nd & 3rd breakfast for the rugrats on a Sunday or when arriving to the clinic a few minutes early
🫶 I acknowledge what has been the priority for the last week (month, year, day). In this season of my life it is RARELY what I set it out to be. And I AM OK WITH THAT. I celebrate having been able to give my attention to what needed me MOST that week. Whether a minor work emergency, whether a sick or dysregulated little one or perhaps it was my own dysregulation.
🫶 I then assess what has had to give way for said priority. If the kids were unwell then perhaps work took a back seat. If work was demanding perhaps presence with the babes fell away a little. If it was either of those then usually TBH it was my own nutrition, physical activity and/or social health 😅
🫶 THEN I decide on 1 thing I will do within the NEXT DAY to prioritise above
THE END
I am not a broad thinker, I am a ‘next step’ thinker. This moves me sometimes quicker towards the big picture then I anticipate and sometimes it literally feels like snail pace. What it does do for me though is… AVOIDS THE OVERWHELM
AND allows me to keep the ‘glass balls’ in the air. Time and time and time again.
So for me 2025’s moto
‘REFOCUS AND REFOCUS OFTEN’
Try it
And I'd love to hear your 'bite-sized' 2025 focus
#2025