12/11/2025
Particularly for Term 4 - Connect first!!
The burnout recovery pyramid.
When our children crash out, burnout, breakdown we want to fix it.
We want to make it better.
I mean, what would we look like if we didnât attempt to do something?
But often in our rush and attention to solutions we miss how much our involvement in them just as they are right now is actually the doing.
Because us being there, taking the time to meet them where they are at is part of recovery, it is repair.
While we might look for others to support this in the beginning when things are fragile others may just be too much.
Cups of tea, chats to the pets might seem like nothing but they could be everything.
So letâs bring the outside in: parcels to peak curiosity, playfulness to lighten or change the tempo, cooking a pile of pancakes and adding toppings for the novelty factor.
Maybe 98% you end up making that Lego build on your own but that 2% of engagement is your glimmer, green shoot.
Write these down, because they are not small, they are massive.
Time is your greatest healer.
And this is yours to repair.
One day it will get better and until then itâs all hands on deck.x