05/06/2018
Good morning!!!
On Monday, I threw out a gratitude challenge to choose one amazing woman and let her know the depths of your appreciation for her.
Did anyone get a chance to do this? Would love to hear how it went!!
But it got me thinking to how we deal with praise when we are on the receiving end. I have always been terrible at receiving compliments - beet red face, awkward squirming, fumbled words. I wonder why it is so difficult for women (I am presuming I'm not the only one here who doesn't do this well) to accept praise. To accept the fact that someone actually thinks we are doing a great job at something, or we look nice, or our meal was divine.
I'm guilty of this all the time - someone will compliment my cooking and I immediately jump to 'oh don't you think it was too salty' or 'the meat is so dry'... etc etc... which leads to more compliments, which leads to more denying of said compliments and further awkwardness ensues!I
I've decided to come up with a few stock standards answers that can sit in my brain and pop out on autopilot whenever I receive a compliment. Such as "Thank you that's so lovely of you to say", or "I'm so glad you liked it".
It might sound ridiculous, but I think if we have some standard replies we can use, then eventually it will become less awkward to be on the receiving end.
And then who knows - over time, we may just end up believing what we are told!
How do you respond to praise - awkward fumbling, or proud acceptance? Let us know in the comments xx
Have a wonderful day
Amy x