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As a chronic apologiser - especially when other people don’t “get” my goals or dreams, this book is such a good reminder that you matter, your dreams matter - and it’s damn ok to dream big ❤️❤️
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07/06/2018
As we gear up for a long weekend, share your favourite self care tip in the comments...
I’m hoping for a crackling 🔥 , maybe take the boys for a nice bush walk somewhere and then pottering in the backyard ...
What are your plans ?
What does self-care look like for you?
05/06/2018
Good morning!!!
On Monday, I threw out a gratitude challenge to choose one amazing woman and let her know the depths of your appreciation for her.
Did anyone get a chance to do this? Would love to hear how it went!!
But it got me thinking to how we deal with praise when we are on the receiving end. I have always been terrible at receiving compliments - beet red face, awkward squirming, fumbled words. I wonder why it is so difficult for women (I am presuming I'm not the only one here who doesn't do this well) to accept praise. To accept the fact that someone actually thinks we are doing a great job at something, or we look nice, or our meal was divine.
I'm guilty of this all the time - someone will compliment my cooking and I immediately jump to 'oh don't you think it was too salty' or 'the meat is so dry'... etc etc... which leads to more compliments, which leads to more denying of said compliments and further awkwardness ensues!I
I've decided to come up with a few stock standards answers that can sit in my brain and pop out on autopilot whenever I receive a compliment. Such as "Thank you that's so lovely of you to say", or "I'm so glad you liked it".
It might sound ridiculous, but I think if we have some standard replies we can use, then eventually it will become less awkward to be on the receiving end.
And then who knows - over time, we may just end up believing what we are told!
How do you respond to praise - awkward fumbling, or proud acceptance? Let us know in the comments xx
Have a wonderful day
Amy x
03/06/2018
Good morning Aware Women!
Happy Monday | GRATITUDE
Gratitude has become a bit of a buzz word over recent years and while the concept has obviously been around since the dawn of time, there is mounting scientific evidence that incorporating daily gratitude practices into our daily rhythms can have a remarkable effect on our mindset and mental health.
Is this something you consciously build into your day? Do you use a gratitude journal? Do you silently whisper thoughts of thankfulness to yourself while driving the kids to school? When you acknowledge gratitude towards someone - do you then extend to actually acknowledge them personally and express your gratitude directly?
Today's challenge (should you choose to accept it haha) is to think about an amazing woman who you are incredibly grateful to have in your life. Why are they so amazing? What would life be like without them?
And then after you have thought about an amazing Aware Woman (or women - no need to limit yourself to just one woman!), I invite you to let them know. To either pick up the phone, or send an email, or have a video chat and express your gratitude to them directly. Let them know what an amazing friend they are and how much you appreciate them.
Imagine for just one second, how amazing you would feel if someone did this to you! YOU CAN DO THIS FOR ANOTHER STRONG WOMAN!!!!!!
So enjoy this challenge - nothing gives us the warm and fuzzies than knowing we have made a difference to someone's day and this is an incredible way to do that for someone.
If you have any Aware Women you think would enjoy this group, ask them to join! (I don't recommend just adding people because some people don't like that) - but tell them they can find the group by searching for Aware Women in the FB search bar.
Happy Monday Aware Women!!!
03/06/2018
I'm beyond thrilled to launch my website tonight!
My vision is to support women to take charge of their life, love, happiness and health.
With a few tweaks I'm sure along the way, I'm pumped to now be able to offer affordable ONLINE counselling and coaching to women.
If you have a second to share or tag some beautiful women who you think may be looking for something like this, that would be amazing :)
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The mission of AWARE WOMEN is to help women take back control of their life, love, happiness and health.
As a Social Worker for the last fifteen years, my entire career has been spent working with women and children in both Mental Health and Child and Family Health services, primarily for issues relating to depression and anxiety, problems relating to parenting and relationships and life in general.
What I have also learned over this period, is that for people who are busy keeping all the balls in the air, making time for your own needs always comes last. That is why I have decided to make it easy for you. Whether you are someone who could do with a bit of counselling to get you out of a slump, some coaching to help you smash your goals or you are a helping professional (social worker, counsellor, health professional) looking for career support or clinical supervision, I offer a range of one-on-one or group programs to suit your needs.
As a mum of two little boys I can seriously relate to feeling like you have fifteen bajillion balls in the air but not wanting to let people know that you are struggling. That you wake in the middle of the night and stress out (aka anxiety) over anything from whether you cut the crusts on the sandwich the right way or how you are going to afford the mortgage tomorrow.
Whether you have kids or not, being a woman in this day and age is frigging tough. You’ve gotta have the dream partner and the perfect house and a six figure career and no belly hanging over your waist band and debt free by forty and … and … and … and … and!
It’s so hard to keep everything going along ok and it’s entirely ok to ask for a bit of help.
For some though, counselling might be a dirty word. Look, I’ve been around the traps long enough to know that there are some dodgy counsellors out there. I’ve seen some myself and bet that you have too. Or at the very least have heard stories about them. But whether you believe it or not at the moment, I know that depression, anxiety, stress and all the daily stuff that gets us down can be overcome. I’ve seen it.
I’ve helped hundreds of women overcome it.
If you are ready to kick, anxiety, stress, depression and whatever else life throws at you to the curb, then get in touch.