07/07/2025
Somewhere along the way, we started expecting one person to be our everything.
Our best friend. Lover. Confidant. Therapist. Business partner. Co-parent. Spiritual companion. Gym buddy. Cheer squad. Emotional safe haven.
All rolled into one.
But it wasn’t always like this.
In past generations, people lived in close-knit communities where their emotional, practical, and even spiritual needs were met by many. You’d go to your sister for advice, your neighbour for a laugh, your uncle for wisdom, your friends to dance it out.
Today, many couples are left trying to do it all within the four walls of their relationship. And honestly? It’s too much for one person to hold.
A healthy relationship isn’t about being everything to each other.
It’s about being something true to each other, while staying connected to the wider circle that helps you feel full, seen, and resourced.
Let your partner off the hook.
Lean into your friendships.
Call your sister. Text your best mate. Join the class. Share the load.
And notice how it actually brings more to your relationship, not less.
