05/10/2025
We often find each other and create relationships through our wounding.
We evoke mirroring, mimicking, replay of past dynamics, loops and habits from our painful history, and we play them out again with different people, like our spouses.
We don't realise, but these are comforting familiar places that we are pulled back into, out of familiarity.
Familiarity, and the hope that this will be the time for your recognition of worth, the time when your greatness will be adored, your abilities rewarded and your ego satiated, a well deserved oasis of love and safety that is over-due.
But, these things won't come. The familiar will win more often, and the wounding will continue, even though you don't deserve it.
So how do we break this cycle?
What do you look like, act like and think like, if you are not referring to your wounded self? Have you ever tired? Does this feel safe, or uneasy?
Can you act in your relationship from places that are not layered with expectations from the wounded parts?
What would it feel like if you both acted from a place of new, of self esteem and self empowerment where the hungry wounds were put to bed, and you began to act, speak, and think from a place of healing, energy and heart?
What if your wound stopped leading and your power took over?
No blame, no pain, no repeating cycles.
Just two people in awareness, and choosing healing together, every day.
That is where the true power couple arises, from the healing power of self, that has always been in waiting, for the light to land on it.
A place where you celebrate strength, and share it with each other.
