09/07/2025
This post is both professional and personal - and so, dear followers, I thank you in advance for your sensitivity and kindness.
It is beyond privilege that I was invited to lead an extraordinary service today to bid farewell to the beautiful Carla Stacey OAM - a life force and friend of nearly three decades to my family and I.
A woman like no other, whom radiated warmth and integrity to anyone lucky enough to connect with her. A shining feminist whose presence always made all others feel seen, heard and valued.
Her unexpected passing is, in short, unfathomable. She will be forever remembered for her great legacy of love, courage and passion - which she wove everywhere she went. A selfless person whom used her own voice to amplify others.
Carla believed in the power of community and today was no exception… over 800 attendees were present.
As wife, mother, daughter, sister, aunty, godmother and an “Olympic gold medalist friend” to so many, Carla’s farewell was characteristically monumentous… she had a wonderful habit of bringing people together. To symbolise this loving connectedness we passed baskets filled with skeins of pure wool through all the hands of all those present - these loved imbued fibres will later be passed at her Adelaide memorial and then woven into beanies for her beautiful husband and sons by a family member.
Her service was held in the iconic Marrickville Town Hall, a place that reflected all she stood for - community, connection and purpose.
We are all utterly bereft… soldiers in an army of love. We have been moulded by Carla and this love will never end… Captain Carla Stacey we will forever celebrate you by dressing up in speeches about love ❤️💔💔