
23/07/2025
You do not need to be fully healed before you’re allowed to live again.
That belief delays joy.
It turns healing into a waiting room.
It tells you you’re not allowed to feel good yet.
But healing doesn’t finish first.
It deepens when you live. While messy. While mid-process. While human.
Because the only way your healing can deepen is if you stop waiting to be worthy…and start living like you already are. BECAUSE YOU ARE.
That’s why I always focus on…
👏🏽Saying yes to what lights me up even if it makes no sense yet
👏🏽Allowing joy, connection, and fun to come into my life
👏🏽Making room for rest without asking permission
👏🏽….and yeah, doing the “inner work”but never letting it delay my life
Notice how “inner work” is last on the list? That’s because healing doesn’t work in isolation, it needs real life to integrate.
You don’t need to earn a beautiful life.
You just need to stop waiting for it.