08/12/2025
The holiday season can bring a lot of pressure to be cheerful, keep up with plans, show up for everyone, and somehow make everything feel âperfect.â
This year, try swapping the self-critical âGrinchâ voice for a more compassionate âElfâ one.
Here are a few gentle ways to bring in more kindness toward yourself this season:
đšNotice the harsh thoughts: When the inner critic shows up, try saying, âAh, thatâs the Grinch talking.â Simply naming it can soften the intensity.
đšSet âelf-sizedâ expectations: You donât need a flawless holiday. Choose the one or two things that genuinely matter to you and let the rest be simple.
đšFind small pockets of joy: A quiet cup of coffee, a walk, your favourite holiday song or movie, tiny pauses still count.
đšCelebrate what is going well: Write down one small win each day and let yourself feel proud. Youâre doing more than you give yourself credit for.
đšOffer yourself the kindness youâd offer someone you care about: If you wouldnât say it to them, it probably doesnât belong in your self-talk either.
A gentle reminder: you donât have to be perfect to make the holidays meaningful. Presence over perfection, always.
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