12/03/2026
There comes a time in a woman's life when everything shifts.
You've spent years being the resource — for your kids, your partner, your family, your work. Always giving. Always doing. Wearing your roles like a second skin.
But what happens when the caterpillar enters the cocoon?
She dissolves. Completely. No form. Just... who am I now?
That disorientation you're feeling? The loneliness, the confusion, the quiet fear of "if I'm not my roles, my titles, my to-do list — then who am I?"
We often call it breakdown. That's a transformation.
This transition — physically, hormonally, emotionally, spiritually — is one of the most profound rites of passage a woman will ever walk through. And in past generations, women were held through it. By elders. By community. By women who had already crossed the threshold and could say: "I see you. I've been there. You are not alone."
Today, too many women are walking this path in silence. And it doesn't have to be that way.
On the other side of this cocoon is the Wise Woman Era — where you are no longer the resource. You are resourced. Grounded in your body. Connected to your inner wisdom. Leading from a place of purpose, not people-pleasing.
The butterfly doesn't fight her way out of the cocoon. She becomes who she was always meant to be.
You are in the becoming.
If you're in the middle of this transition — or you feel it coming — I'd love to hold space for you.
There are a few ways to work with me:
🌿 Join one of my retreats in Australia — including our full Rites of Passage experience in October
🌿 Bring this work to your community — I travel to create containers for groups of women (and mother-daughter pairs) wherever you are in the world
🌿 Reach out directly — if you're not sure where to start, just message me
Check the link in my bio or drop a 🦋 in the comments and I'll be in touch.
You don't have to walk this alone.
With love
