05/11/2025
Healing After Workplace Bullying
She came to therapy shattered by what had happened at work, the daily put-downs, the subtle exclusion, the whispers in meetings. Over time, the bullying eroded her confidence and sense of safety.
When she started EMDR therapy, she described feeling “frozen” every time she thought about returning to work. Her body would tense, her chest would tighten, and she’d replay the moments of humiliation as if they were happening all over again.
Through EMDR, she began to process these memories in a way that felt safe and contained. The flashbacks softened. Her body learned that those experiences were over. The emotional charge lessened, and the power those memories held over her began to fade.
Today, she describes herself as “stronger and freer.” She’s set new boundaries, found a workplace that values her, and most importantly, she believes in herself again.
Healing isn’t about forgetting what happened. It’s about remembering it differently, without the fear, shame, and self-doubt attached. That’s the gift EMDR can bring.