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19/12/2025

14/12/2025

December is National Giving Month, a time to celebrate compassion, generosity, and the simple acts of kindness that strengthen our communities. Dr. Maya Angelou believed deeply in the power of giving — not only materially, but also with love, time, attention, and care.

In her poem “Continue,” she reminds us: “Continue to be who and how you are, To astonish a mean world, With your acts of kindness”

Her words call us to recognize that giving is not limited to grand gestures. It lives in how we show up for others, how we speak life into one another, and how we carry hope into the spaces that need it most.

This month, we honor every person who gives — formally or quietly, publicly or behind the scenes. Your generosity uplifts, restores, and reminds us that we are more alike than unalike.

May we continue to give with open hearts and open hands, just as Dr. Angelou taught.

13/12/2025

◆ Bound by words ◆

Oaths and vows are often spoken of as ancient things.
Old temples. Old rituals. Old lifetimes.

“You have my word.”

We say it casually now, almost lovingly, as if it carries no weight anymore.
As if words are harmless.
As if intention doesn’t bind.

But are oaths and vows really of the past?

I don’t believe they are.

In modern life, they’ve simply changed shape.

What has changed is the speed of communication.

News travels instantly now.
Screenshots. Voice notes. Group chats. Social media.
Information moves faster than our nervous systems can regulate.

And because words can spread so quickly, control over words has become currency.

This is where manipulation enters.

They hide inside phrases like
“Don’t tell anyone.”
“Promise me.”
“This stays between us.”
“If you really cared, you wouldn’t share this.”

What looks like trust can quietly become a bind.

What sounds like intimacy can turn into obligation.

And what is framed as loyalty can slowly become a way to manage risk, reputation, or accountability in a hyper connected world.

Words are not neutral.
They carry charge, frequency, expectation, and agreement.

When someone asks you to hold something in silence, it matters why.

Is it about safety and respect in a world where things spread fast?
Or is it about control, power, or fear of exposure?

There is a very real energetic difference between conscious confidentiality and coerced silence.

One is chosen freely.
The other is imposed subtly, often emotionally.

And here’s the part we don’t talk about enough…

When you agree with your words, your body listens.
Your nervous system listens.
Your field listens.

You may feel heavy, tight, anxious, or responsible for something that was never meant to be yours to carry.

This is how modern oaths operate.
Not through ceremony, but through suggestion.
Not through ritual, but through emotional pressure layered over fast moving communication.

As a healer, I see this constantly.
People bound by words they spoke to keep the peace.
To avoid conflict.
To be liked.
To be chosen.
Or to stop something from spreading too quickly.

But truth wants movement.
Energy wants honesty.
And your soul wants sovereignty, not silence born from fear.

You are allowed to revisit your words.
You are allowed to release agreements that no longer feel clean.
You are allowed to say, “That no longer feels aligned for me.”

Your word is sacred.
And so is your right to choose it consciously.

If this landed, let it land gently. ♡
And maybe take a moment to ask yourself…

What words am I still living by, without realising?

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Today's thoughts.
With love,

Ray xo

25/11/2025

♡ IT ALL STARTS AND ENDS WITH YOU ♡

It all begins with you
and it all ends with you.

Every healing you experience is shaped by one truth
you decide how deeply you receive and how deeply you feel.

I work as a clear channel, fully tapped into Source consciousness, and I am also trained in many modalities.
I honour both paths because I am human and I am a conduit.
I learn, I practice, I study, and I also open myself as a vessel for pure energy to move through.
Both are valuable
both are needed
both have shaped the healer I am today.

When I open a field for you, I open it completely.
The stream that comes through is whole, unfiltered, and untouched.
Nothing is held back.
Nothing is reduced.
The energy arrives in its full purity.

But only you decide how much of that you allow into your system.

A healer can hold the highest field.
A healer can anchor the light, the frequencies, the codes exactly as they are shown.
A healer can open the door wide.
But they cannot walk you through it.

The depth of the healing is up to you.
The results of the healing are up to you.
And the depth of what you feel in a session is also up to you.

You can only feel what you allow yourself to feel.
This is why results vary from person to person.
It is not because the energy is stronger for some and softer for others.
It is because each person meets themselves at a different level of openness and surrender.

Some allow the healing to pour through their whole field.
Some meet the energy gently at the edges.
Both are valid.
But they are different experiences.

This is not blame.
This is sovereignty.

And it is important to say this with love
not all healers channel Source energy directly
but that does not make them any less.

Many carry wisdom passed down through lineages that were originally received by someone deeply connected.
Reiki is a beautiful example
the symbols were channelled by someone open enough to receive
and then taught with devotion so they could be shared across generations.

We all walk our own path as healers
some as channels
some as practitioners
some as both
and each way is sacred.

If resistance rises during a session, it does not mean the healing failed.
It means there are parts of you still holding on, still protecting old identities or old wounds.
That resistance is yours to meet, yours to soften, yours to transform.

Your healing is sourced from within you.
The modality is the permission slip.
The healer is the conduit.
But you are the one who chooses how much you receive.

When you understand this, you reclaim your power.
You stop waiting for something outside of you to fix what only you can allow.
And the moment you choose openness
the moment you allow feeling
the moment you let yourself be healed
everything changes.

Every session becomes more potent.
Every frequency becomes more resonant.
Every shift becomes more real.

It always begins with you.
It always ends with you.
And your willingness is the key that unlocks everything.

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Today's rambles...
Written with love by Ray of Avalon of Find your Ray xo

17/10/2025

✦ SHORT BUT SWEET ✦

The Toukley shop has officially been sold ♡

This chapter was short but beautifully sweet, only six months yet filled with the most wonderful people, heartfelt conversations, and those moments of magic that made this space so special.

We’ve got five weeks to go before the doors close, and I’ll be running extended hours over the next two weeks so you can drop in for a visit, a chat, or one last wander through the shelves.

Feeling a little frazzled after the school holidays or the mad rush towards the end of the year? I’ve got you. Come in for a calming browse, a reset of your energy, or a moment to simply breathe in all the good vibes before the next wave of busyness begins.

Everything is for sale. Books, crystals, oracle decks, jewellery, incense, and beautiful metaphysical gifts that make your heart smile. Perfect for your bestie, neighbour, family, or as a little treat for yourself because you definitely deserve it.

It’s been such a joy to share this space with you, to laugh, to connect, to swap stories, and to sprinkle a little light around Toukley. Thank you for every visit, every hug, and every chat across the counter. You’ve made this short chapter one I’ll treasure forever.

Come soak in the energy one more time and take home a piece of the magic. I’ll tell you my next plans when I see you ;)

With love,
Ray of Avalon ♡

Bookings: https://findyourray.trafft.com

Healing that meets you —Mind, Body and Soul.

02/10/2025

Return to You ~ Ritual Soul-Care Retreat

With Sarah, Kate and special guest Ray of Avalon

Allow yourself to soften and sink into the serenity of Kincumba Mountain as we gather under the stars for an intentional journey back to self.

Through sacred ritual and soul-care practices, we’ll move gently and deeply into connection — with ourselves, each other, and the energies of the 10.10 gateway.

Together, we will explore a rich blend of breath, moving meditation, InnerDance sound journeys, reiki healing, and a heart-opening tea ceremony. Guiding you to access inner clarity and return home to your essence.

We are also in for a treat, with Special Guest Ray of Avalon joining us. Ray is a Celestial Channel and Priestess of the Higher Realms, carrying the crystalline codes of Avalon to awaken remembrance and restore sovereignty. Not only will Ray share sacred teachings on the power of portals and the importance of the 10.10 gateway, but she will also channel the Divine Director to bring through transformative wisdom from the higher realms. Together, these energies open a pathway into your highest timeline, offering deep renewal and tangible tools for lasting change.

This is a space of nourishment, of depth, of remembering.
A sacred pause to return to you… return to all that is.

Get tickets:
https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/return-to-you-ritual-retreat-tickets-1316854510289?aff=ebdsoporgprofile

An evening of soul remembrance under the magic of the 10.10 gateway.

20/09/2025

✦✦✦ When the Shadow Meets the Work ✦✦✦

At the start, people are so relieved to find me.
Someone who gets it.
Someone who can hold space for the pain, the grief, the questions, the longing.

And then after a while… something changes.

The shadow shows up.
Not because something’s wrong... but because the work is actually working.

This is where resistance kicks in.
Not so much to the healing itself, but to what it’s showing them.
To my boundaries.
To the fact that I’m human too.
To the truth that I can’t do the work for them.

And I get it because this part is hard.
It feels easier to get frustrated at me, or the process, or how I run my sessions or how long I take to respond to an email, than to sit with what’s coming up inside.

But that’s all smoke and mirrors.
Because really, this is a gift.
Your shadow is rising to meet you.

This is the moment that matters.
This is where real change starts.
When you stay with what feels messy and uncomfortable.
When you don’t run from yourself.
When you let yourself see what’s been hiding.

I’m not here to make it all go away.
I’m here to hold you while you go through it.
To remind you that you’re stronger than you think.
To walk with you as you face the things you’ve been avoiding.

This work was never meant to make life perfect.
It’s meant to make you whole.

And sometimes wholeness means standing in the fire a little longer... until you feel the shift.

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Today's rambles I wanted to share with you

With love
Ray xo

16/09/2025

✦ The Black Sheep & The Path of Spiritual Gifts ✦

Many of us begin our journey feeling like the black sheep. The ones who felt different from the very beginning — too sensitive, too curious, too awake to the things no one else seemed to notice.

Then come the signs... the dreams that feel like messages, the angel numbers on clocks and number plates, the songs that seem to answer our questions, the quiet knowing in your gut that says “this is for you.” These are invitations to trust yourself.

For some, this is where it ends — the signs are seen, maybe shared with a friend, and life continues as it was.

But for others, these signs are the doorway. They lead you to Reiki, meditation, energy work, journaling. They open your curiosity about who you really are. And if you let them, they begin to change you.

This is where the path deepens. It stops being about the next certificate or workshop and becomes about living the work. Letting it shape the way you think, the way you love, the way you move through the world.

Some people stop here, and that is perfect. Others keep going. They feel the pull to hold their gifts for the collective. To become the healer, the channel, the space-holder. To serve.

This isn’t about who is “more advanced.” It’s about resonance. It’s about how far you are willing to walk with your gifts, how deeply you are willing to let them change you.

Trust the signs. Trust your timing. And when you meet someone who has walked this path, trust that they have done the work and are here to hold the light while you find your own way.

I understand this path because I’ve walked it too. I have been the black sheep, the seeker, the student. I’ve let this work shape me so I can serve from a place that feels true.

Wherever you are right now — noticing the first signs, stepping into study, or beginning to embody your medicine... I honour the path you have chosen for YOU.

Let's walk each other home.

With love
Ray xo

14/09/2025

Sunday feels 😅😍

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13/09/2025

12/09/2025

Growth, it sure isn’t easy 🤍