18/09/2025
A little reflection on Matrescence - I am still me…but changed.
With the birth of each child, a new version of me has emerged—one with a new purpose, a new lens, and a heart stretched in ways I never thought possible. And while there is deep love and gratitude, there has also been quiet grief.
Grief for the woman I was before.
Grief for the energy, dreams, and parts of myself I’ve had to set aside.
Grief that I’ve changed the family dynamic and our timelines have shifted.
Grief that’s rarely spoken about, often silenced by guilt or the fear of being misunderstood.
But I’ve learnt and I’ve guided others to know:
✨ It’s okay to grieve and love at the same time.
✨ You can feel joy and loss.
✨ Grief is not weakness—it’s a sign of growth, of depth, of how much you’ve given.
So if you’re a mother walking through this quiet inner transformation, this is for you.
Feel it. Name it. Share it and Seek Support if you need it.
You are not alone in this.
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💛Let’s normalize the full emotional experience of motherhood
