25/03/2026
Contemplating the idea of Control after my ramblings the other day, and if youāre familiar with the āCelestine Prophecyā, youāll now we all have ways of taking other peopleās energy - yes it all about energy with me. If youāll recall these 4 types of energy theft areā¦
Intimidation : making others feel small in order for them to boost their fragile egos, to feel powerful, to be respected, to be feared
Interrogation : coercing others to tell all their secrets, to be trusted, to have dirt on the other person, or for the fun of finding out.
Aloof : like to feel elite or superior to others, that their thoughts, and feelings could never be understood, so they it to themselves, sometimes hinting at what they know or they deserve attention
Poor me : seeks attention by eliciting sympathy, by appearing small not to attract aggression, or over reacting to threats or injury.
If we delve deeper into each we get further divisions that are reminiscent of Jungās 12 Archetypesā¦
The Ruler
- This type seeks attention through authority and control. They often position themselves as leaders to gain respect and admiration.
- Unlike others, the Ruler focuses on power dynamics and often feels superior through their structured approach to leadership.
The Hero
- The Hero craves validation by showcasing bravery and resilience. They often take on challenges to be recognized for their strength.
- Their motivation stems from a desire to overcome obstacles, contrasting with those who may seek attention through manipulation or aggression.
The Caregiver
- This type seeks attention by nurturing and helping others. They feel superior when they can provide support or care.
- Unlike the Ruler, who seeks respect through control, the Caregiver seeks emotional connection and validation through selflessness.
The Explorer
- The Explorer gains attention through novelty and adventure. They often highlight their unique experiences to appear more interesting.
- This type is different from the Hero as their focus is on exploration rather than conquest, seeking admiration for their freedom rather than their achievements.
The Rebel
- Rebels draw attention through defiance and nonconformity. They often challenge norms to feel empowered and superior.
- In contrast to the Hero, who seeks glory through bravery, the Rebel seeks recognition by opposing conventional standards.
The Lover
- This type seeks attention through intimacy and connection. They often focus on relationships to feel valued and desired.
- Unlike the Caregiver, who seeks validation through nurturing, the Loverās focus is on romantic and aesthetic connections.
The Jester
- The Jester seeks attention through humor and playfulness. They often use wit to gain acceptance and feel superior in social situations.
- While the Rebel seeks attention through provocation, the Jester does so through light-heartedness, often diffusing tension rather than creating it.
The Sage
- The Sage seeks attention through knowledge and wisdom. They aim to be seen as experts, feeling superior when their insights are recognized.
- Unlike the Hero, who seeks validation through action, the Sage relies on intellect and philosophical depth.
The Magician
- The Magician draws attention through transformation and innovation. They seek to impress others with their creativity and vision.
- This type differs from the Explorer in that the Magician focuses on creating new realities, whereas the Explorer seeks experiences and adventure.
The Innocent
- The Innocent seeks attention through purity and optimism. They often present themselves as wholesome to attract affection and protection.
- Unlike the Jester, who uses humor, the Innocent relies on a straightforward, often naive approach to gain acceptance.
The Orphan
- The Orphan seeks attention through vulnerability and relatability. They often share their struggles to elicit empathy and support.
- This type is distinct from the Caregiver as the Orphan seeks attention through shared pain rather than providing care.
The Creator
- The Creator seeks attention through artistic expression and originality. They feel superior when their work is recognized and appreciated.
- Unlike the Magician, who transforms reality, the Creator focuses on the beauty and originality of their expression.
As you can see Jungās 12 personality types all employ different strategies to gain attention, feelings of superiority - energy follows thought. These strategies can range from seeking control via authority (Ruler), fostering trust through connections (Lover) or by using humor (Jester). The underlying theme is that all these energy acquiring techniques is they take energy from others by making themselves the centre of otherās emotional attention.
Iām reminded of stories of the succubus/incubus, and vampires, sucking the vital force out othersā¦something we all actually do to a lesser extent. But this isnāt about shame, itās about understanding these dynamics to help in recognizing oneās own behaviors and those of others in social contexts. We shouldnāt rely on taking others energy by any means when only a little effort teaches us we are surrounded by an abundance of Universal energy
Be kind to yourself š„°š