
24/07/2025
What is co-regulation, and why does it matter so much?
Co-regulation means you and your child manage emotions together.
When your child is dysregulated, they cannot “calm down” on their own.
They need your calm body, your steady voice, and your support.
Try this:
✔️ Sit near them, without pressure to talk
✔️ Breathe slowly and visibly “Let’s do it together”
✔️ Say: “I’m here. You are safe. Lets calm together.”
You do not have to fix the feeling.
Just be there. That is what they remember and what helps them learn to self-regulate in the future.
💛 Save this as a gentle reminder.
💬 Tag a parent who needs this today.