The Deborah Wolf

The Deborah Wolf ๐˜š๐˜–๐˜”๐˜ˆ๐˜›๐˜๐˜Š ๐˜Ž๐˜œ๐˜๐˜‹๐˜Œ
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๐˜‰๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜บ-๐˜‰๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜บ
๐˜๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜บ + ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ
๐˜š๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜š๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ
๐˜š๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ค + ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ
๐˜ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜™๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜›๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ

The evolution of my work has been a journey from fire into softness.For 12 years I walked the shamanic path, shedding an...
31/08/2025

The evolution of my work has been a journey from fire into softness.

For 12 years I walked the shamanic path, shedding and unraveling, pushing myself to the edge in the name of healing.

But I discovered that true transformation isnโ€™t only found in intensity - it also lives in stillness, play, pleasure, and joy.

Now I weave my shamanic roots with the nourishment of the feminine, creating spaces where healing comes through safety, presence, and the radical act of including all of who we are.

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The medicine I offer is of being deeply seen, of slowing down enough to listen to the body, and remembering what it feel...
22/08/2025

The medicine I offer is of being deeply seen, of slowing down enough to listen to the body, and remembering what it feels like to come home to itself.

I hold space for you to reconnect with your original blueprint, your roots, your Eros, and your aliveness.

My work is trauma-sensitive, deeply embodied, and woven with ritual, creativity, and care.

This medicine is for those who are ready to release old wounds, reclaim their power, and step into steadiness, vitality, and truth.

Who long for softness and safety, as much as for those who are ready to ignite their fire.

Every session is unique, guided by what your body, heart, and spirit are asking for.

Sometimes it looks like grounding into the nervous system, sometimes meeting grief or anger, sometimes reawakening pleasure and erotic energy - always in service of bringing you closer to your wholeness.

If you feel the call to work together, I invite you to step into this medicine with me.

Book in locations are Tweed Heads & Ocean Shores

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Hi everyone, weโ€™ve created something we are really excited about called NAKED CONVERSATIONS - which is a Sex-positive Sh...
21/08/2025

Hi everyone, weโ€™ve created something we are really excited about called NAKED CONVERSATIONS - which is a
Sex-positive Sharing Support Circle - with all profits going to CASA (Center Against Sexual Assault) ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

๐ŸŒนWhat to expect from these circles::

โ€ข Opportunities to explore the raw, real terrain of being human, covering shame, trauma, body image, relationship repair, and the longing to be seen and supported.
โ€ข Reflection and integration after scenes
โ€ข Support for Sub and Dom drops
โ€ข Safety, Consent and Boundary work
โ€ข Heartfelt connection with a kinky sex-positive community

๐ŸŒนWhen?
Last Thursday of each month
12โ€“1.15pm (AEST)
Online ยท By donation
(all profits to CASA)

The Zoom link will be emailed once you have reserved your spot ๐Ÿฉต

Come as you are.
Speak if you wish.
Listen deeply.
Be held.

Hosted by Mistress Grace
& Mistress Wolf ๐ŸŒน


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I often tell the story of The Boar Stone when Iโ€™m holding space for women.Something happens when itโ€™s spoken - an activa...
15/08/2025

I often tell the story of The Boar Stone when Iโ€™m holding space for women.

Something happens when itโ€™s spoken - an activation, a stirring - in the hearts it reaches.

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In the old Celtic lands, there was a sacred cave where women went to birth.

In the centre stood the Boar Stone. Barefoot, blood-warmed, they climbed onto it. Around them, women and midwives stood as witnesses to the initiation.

They lifted the pleats of their dresses, raised their hands to the roof of the cave, and birthed-not only the child, but themselves.

In that moment, the Maiden was laid to rest. She was honoured, integrated, and the Warrior Mother took her place. The Lioness who protects. The one who does not take s**t.

It was never just the birth of the child. It was the birth of the Mother.

A primal ache had been tugging at her womb since the moment she first bled, and as she stepped into the mouth of the cave, it wasnโ€™t fear that guided her-it was ecstasy. The taste of her full power.

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Imagine growing up knowing that one day, you would stand on that stone to birth your children. Imagine how that expectation would call you forward into your own warrior woman.

Every woman touches the wild when she births, but sometimes she isnโ€™t ready. Sometimes the rawness and reality of it shakes her to her core.

Birth is big. My god - it is so big.

Think of what it would do to youโ€ฆ to stand on that stone, feel your ancestors behind you, and push life into the world. Iโ€™m tingling just speaking it.

This story writes itself through me.

There is so much power waiting to be reclaimed through initiation.

When I tell it, I can feel her - the Wild Woman, the Warrior Mother - breathing down my neck, urging me to open my jaws and howl.

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The temples were never truly lost.. only buried.Long ago, the sacred erotic spaces of the Goddess were covered over.Ston...
31/07/2025

The temples were never truly lost.. only buried.

Long ago, the sacred erotic spaces of the Goddess were covered over.

Stone by stone, patriarchal temples were built on top of them, silenced by shame, and repackaged as taboo.

The body made shameful.
Desire made dangerous.
Power made punishable.

But you canโ€™t bury something that lives in our bones.

You canโ€™t erase what is elemental or woven into our blueprint.

The sacred, erotic, wild temple lives on in us.

And now, she has risen.

We see her in the revival of Ta**ra, not as a technique, but as a way of being.

We see Her in the way we speak love into our loversโ€™ skin..
in every breath of devotion, in every gesture of respect.

In honour. In deep listening. In the courageous art of communication.

We see her in kink being pulled out of the dungeon and placed back onto the altar.

Not to be sanitized, but to be honoured.

To us, kink is temple.
Itโ€™s not about shock or spectacle, itโ€™s about soul.

We wear archetypes like ritual garments, and play different roles like sacred costumes.

Each archetypeโ€”a doorway to the parts of us waiting to be seen:
the seductress, the beast, the healer, the brat, the queen, the holy w***e, the priestess.

Through play, we access truth.
Through consent, we create safety.
Through sensation, we come alive.

This is the erotic as holy.
This is healing through embodied mythology.

Each scene is a ceremony, a chance to meet the fragmented, the hidden, the hungry parts within.

This is shadow work dressed in leather.
Parts work laced with rope.
Somatic healing wrapped in permission, presence, and play.

Kink, when held with care and consent, is not separate from the sacred.. it is sacred.

It is how we reclaim what was buried.

How we make the body holy again.

How we reinhabit the temple we never truly left.

๐Ÿ”ฅ Join the next Red Temple event, The Naked Muse โ€ข September 13th โ€ข Brisbane

Spiritual gifts arenโ€™t really โ€œspiritualโ€ to me at all.. theyโ€™re natural responses that emerge when we deepen, clear, an...
28/07/2025

Spiritual gifts arenโ€™t really โ€œspiritualโ€ to me at all.. theyโ€™re natural responses that emerge when we deepen, clear, and become fully present with what is.

To call it Spiritual, it gives a sense to me anyway that itโ€™s not accessible because not everyone is โ€˜spiritually inclinedโ€™, it also makes it feel outside of ourselves and seperate.

Our world is layered with distractions; overstimulation, instant gratification, and endless entertainment.. all of which dull our senses.

This is the veil, or you could say, this is the exile from the Garden.

When we remove the numbing, and stay with whatโ€™s real, even the discomfort- something ancient begins to stir. Something in the blueprint of our elder-humanness that was always there.

A forgotten sense comes online. Itโ€™s not mystical, or something that makes you special or different.

Itโ€™s justโ€ฆ human. And it wakes up when you heal by meeting yourself honestly.

Sometimes, these capacities are triggered by trauma or some kind of rupture, a crack in the structure of your ordinary life.

Theyโ€™re evolutionary responses.

Like a motherโ€™s milk coming in at just the right moment, or a manโ€™s s***m count shifting with the moon.

You could call it magic, but itโ€™s deeply embodied and intelligent.

What we call โ€œspiritual giftsโ€ arenโ€™t mystical or special, theyโ€™re natural human capacities that awaken when we slow down, clear distractions, and meet ourselves honestly.

Our world constantly pulls us away from presence, and these gifts are evolutionary responses, like intuitive sensing, deep empathy, or insight that comes online when we reconnect with our inner world.

Theyโ€™re not supernatural. Theyโ€™re just part of being fully human.

These so-called โ€œgiftsโ€ are part of our design and activate when we do.

How do we learn safe attachment?Not by pushing people away.Not by pretending we donโ€™t care.Not by detaching from our nee...
24/07/2025

How do we learn safe attachment?
Not by pushing people away.
Not by pretending we donโ€™t care.
Not by detaching from our needs.

We learn safe attachment by rewiring our nervous system โ€” one gentle moment at a time.

โœจ We start with the body โ€” learning to notice when weโ€™re activated and how to come back to ground.

โœจ We build trust with ourselves โ€” showing up for our own emotions instead of abandoning or shaming them.

โœจ We connect with safe people โ€” not perfect ones, but those who can repair after rupture, respect boundaries, and meet us with consistency.

โœจ We expect our old patterns to show up โ€” and meet them with compassion, not judgment.

โœจ We create new experiences โ€” steady connection, healthy affection, love that doesnโ€™t require losing ourselves.

Safe attachment is not a destination.
Itโ€™s a practice.

A nervous system that learns, over time:
โ€œI am safe. I am loved. I donโ€™t have to do it all alone.โ€

This is more than a Red Tent.Itโ€™s an ancient way of gatheringโ€”a practice as old as time, where women come together to sh...
24/07/2025

This is more than a Red Tent.

Itโ€™s an ancient way of gatheringโ€”a practice as old as time, where women come together to share, rest, and be with whatโ€™s real.

This is not a space for performance or pressure, thereโ€™s no over-the-top woo,
You donโ€™t need to be โ€œspiritual enoughโ€ or have the right language to belong here.
Just come as you are.

We meet in a rhythm that nourishes.
We share food, stories, and whatโ€™s alive in us.

Sometimes thereโ€™s craft, ritual, storytelling or medicine.

Sometimes the whole circle is gently held for one woman in the midst of something big.

This is a remembering.
A returning to the old ways of women gatheringโ€”of slowing down, softening, and sitting together in our truth.

Here, rest is welcome.
Slowness is sacred.
Spaciousness is part of the practice.

One evening might be full of laughter and storytelling.
Another, quiet and tender.

There may be somatic practices, deep sharing, gentle touch, or even a moment to simply lie back and close your eyes.

Nothing is forced. Nothing is expected.

Thereโ€™s room for humour, for crassness, for tears and silence.
Thereโ€™s room for your full self.

I created this circle 9 years ago because I was longing for something more honest.

After years in womenโ€™s spaces and over a decade of studying shamanic healing, I wanted something that felt more humanโ€”less serious, more spacious.
Something I could exhale into.

And what I found is that this kind of circleโ€”the consistent knowing that youโ€™ll gather again soonโ€”holds you through the month, even when youโ€™re not physically in it.

It becomes a soft anchor. A lifeline, and a quiet red thread of connection.

Youโ€™re welcome here, exactly as you are.

To find out more, head to my bio ๐ŸŒน

Attachment isnโ€™t a flaw โ€” itโ€™s a function.Weโ€™re meant to attach. Itโ€™s how we survive.As babies, our nervous systems were...
22/07/2025

Attachment isnโ€™t a flaw โ€” itโ€™s a function.
Weโ€™re meant to attach. Itโ€™s how we survive.

As babies, our nervous systems were wired to seek closeness โ€” to cry, to reach, to hold โ€” because our survival depended on it. Without attachment, we wouldnโ€™t have made it. Itโ€™s biology. Itโ€™s instinct. Itโ€™s human.

So often in healing or spiritual spaces, we hear phrases like โ€œjust let go,โ€ โ€œdetach,โ€ or โ€œdonโ€™t get too attached.โ€ But that bypasses something essential. Attachment isnโ€™t the problem โ€” wounded attachment is. When our early needs werenโ€™t consistently met, our attachment strategies became adaptations โ€” anxious, avoidant, disorganized โ€” all rooted in love and protection.

Healing isnโ€™t about removing attachment.
Itโ€™s about learning safe, healthy, secure connection.
Itโ€™s about remembering that our desire to bond is not a weakness โ€” itโ€™s a sacred part of being human.

You are not broken for wanting closeness.
You are not needy for yearning to feel safe with another.
You are wired for connection.
That wiring is wisdom.

Your sexuality is not something to be tamed, hidden, or explained.Itโ€™s a living current.A pulse of life that moves throu...
27/04/2025

Your sexuality is not something to be tamed, hidden, or explained.

Itโ€™s a living current.
A pulse of life that moves through youโ€”
sacred, wild, and entirely your own.

It doesnโ€™t need to look a certain way.
It doesnโ€™t need to be performative or polished.
It doesnโ€™t need to make sense to anyone else.

Whether itโ€™s soft or fiery, playful or primal, quiet or roaringโ€”
your Eros is an expression of your aliveness.

Itโ€™s not just about pleasure.
Itโ€™s about power.
Itโ€™s about presence.
Itโ€™s about reclaiming the parts of you that were never meant to be exiled.

You are allowed to want.
You are allowed to feel.
You are allowed to take up space in your longing, your lust, your love.

Your body is holy.
Your desire is not a sinโ€”
itโ€™s a prayer.

Sessions every Wednesday in Byron

There comes a momentโ€”sometimes quiet, sometimes cataclysmicโ€”when you realise:Youโ€™re not here to live your fate.Youโ€™re he...
27/04/2025

There comes a momentโ€”sometimes quiet, sometimes cataclysmicโ€”
when you realise:

Youโ€™re not here to live your fate.
Youโ€™re here to choose your destiny.

Fate is the web youโ€™re born into.
Itโ€™s the ancestral imprints, karmic loops, and inherited wounds that shape your early path.

Itโ€™s the story that plays out when youโ€™re asleep to your own powerโ€”
when fear, programming, and performance run the show.

But destinyโ€”
Destiny is what awakens when you do.
Itโ€™s the soulโ€™s wild yes.
Itโ€™s the life that unfolds when you choose truth over comfort, alignment over approval, growth over predictability.

Shamans say fate is the raw material.
Destiny is the art you make from it.

Fate gives you the wound.
Destiny offers the gift hidden inside it.

One is inherited.
The other is claimed.

To walk the destiny path is an initiation.
It demands presence, devotion, and radical self-responsibility.

It asks you to remember who you were before the world told you who to be.

To weave consciously. To turn poison into medicine.

To become the one your lineage has been waiting for.

Switching from victim to creator isnโ€™t just a mindset shift.

Itโ€™s a soul decision.

A choice to step off the default timeline-
and walk the sacred path you were born to remember.

๐ŸŒนSessions every Wednesday in Byron

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