
02/09/2025
💥The More You Avoid It… The Bigger It Feels
Anxiety says: “What if it goes wrong?”
So you avoid it.
The task. The call. The conversation. The decision.
And for a moment — you feel relief. 😮💨
But soon, the fear grows louder.
The guilt creeps in.
The list gets longer.
And your confidence shrinks.
This is the anxiety-avoidance cycle.
It works like this:
➡️ Anxiety rises
➡️ You avoid the trigger
➡️ Anxiety eases temporarily
➡️ Long-term, the fear grows
➡️ You feel stuck, small, ashamed
➡️ Repeat…
💡 The good news? You can break this cycle — gently and gradually — with support.
💬 I help rural women and mums facing overwhelm, avoidance, and perfectionism find practical, compassionate tools to move forward (..at your pace).
👉Need a free call from our team to chat about how Rebecca can support you, or how to access a Medicare rebate with an eligible referral? Fill in our New Contact Form on the website.
💥Rebember that social media is not therapy. If any of this information resonates, or is distressing the best place to go is your GP - or emergency department in moments of high distress!