06/08/2025
Most people come to sessions talking about the issue:
▪️Relationship or parenting stress
▪️Low self-worth or self-doubt
▪️Emotional eating, people-pleasing, overthinking
▪️Feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed by change
But in our individual sessions, we don’t stay at the surface. We don’t focus on retelling ‘the story’ or focus on reframing.
We work on identifying the emotional energy underneath - the part quietly driving it all - and start working with that.
Because I love data (almost as much as EFT), I tracked the core or underlying emotion identified in each session over the last six months.
Here’s what I found:
🌀 Fear – 36%
🌀 Shame – 19%
🌀 Anger/Frustration/Resentment – 14%
🌀 Hopelessness/Powerlessness – 10%
🌀 Guilt – 4%
🌀 Disappointment – 4%
🌀 Loneliness – 5%
🌀 Anxiety – 3%
🌀 Numb – 3%
🌀 Overwhelm – 1%
🌀 Sadness – 1%
What stood out (but at the same time didn’t surprise me)?
Fear and shame were at the root of more than half of all sessions.
So many of us are driven by fear and shame.
And that’s a problem because these emotions sit very low on the vibration scale, which means they’re very heavy in the body.
It’s also a problem because these emotions shape:
▪️how we see ourselves
▪️how safe we feel
▪️what we believe we deserve
▪️what we attract
▪️the decisions we make, and
▪️the risks we’re willing (or unwilling) to take.
The surface stuff - the relationship issues, procrastination, overthinking, stuckness - those are just symptoms.
When we use EFT to find and release the emotions underneath, things shift.
The negative thoughts soften.
The limiting beliefs loosen.
Our perspective changes.
If you’re ready to work with what’s really there, book a 1:1 session here: https://link.innovorise.com/widget/group/YdRupj4fvHf7x6Ya5JEG