04/11/2025
A MANTRA for kids: “I can cope, if I need to.”
A mantra is a short phrase we repeat to guide the brain and body—like a tiny compass for tricky moments. Repeating a simple line can help steady breathing, lowers tension, and keeps the “doing” part of the brain online when big feelings make thinking and reasoning dip.
Why this mantra helps...?
☀️Short + memorable - easy to grab when emotions are high
☀️ Empowering - “I can…” builds a sense of agency
☀️Validating - “if I need to” acknowledges the fear that it might be hard—without predicting or agreeing it will be
☀️ Coping focused - points to the next brave step, not perfection
☀️Keeps adults calm too - gives us a steady phrase so we can stay on point and avoid becoming too talkative, too reassuring, or too frustrated
Try it!
1️⃣ Name it: “Looks like worry is loud right now.”
2️⃣ Breathe: In for 4, out for 4 (twice)
3️⃣ Say it together: “I can cope, if I need to.” (soft, steady pace)
4️⃣ Anchor it: Touch thumb to finger for each word: I (index), can (middle), cope (ring), if I need to (pinky)
5️⃣ Cue it: Pop a sticky note in the backpack or on the fridge
Make it fun!
🤭 Whisper it, robot-voice it, or sing it
🤭 “Pass the mantra” in the car—each person says it once
🤭 Draw a tiny secret symbol (⭐ or ❤️) that reminds them of their mantra
Use mantras to support transitions, homework wobbles, sport nerves, morning goodbyes...or whenever they may need it!
And remember, if anxiety builds quickly and they’re beyond words, start with calm presence, comfort and breathing; add the mantra later ⏰