23/03/2026
When a child says “no” or refuses something, it can feel frustrating.
But sometimes, it’s not defiance.
It’s a signal.
💡 “I won’t” is often actually:
• “I don’t understand”
• “This feels too hard”
• “I’m overwhelmed”
• “I don’t feel safe doing this yet”
A small shift that can help:
Instead of asking
“How do I make them do this?”
Try asking
“What might be making this hard?”
When we understand the barrier, we can support the child more effectively. ❤️