27/08/2025
Today I attended the funeral of one of our clients. Seeing the photos and hearing the stories of their younger years is always so special. It’s a reminder of the vibrant life they lived long before illness or age became part of their journey. It’s touching to also see the love and support of their extended family and friends gathered to honour them.
Moments like this remind me that our work is not only about the person we care for, but also about the people who love them. I like to slip in quietly, pay my respects, and if I can, offer a gentle smile or small touch to the family we know. My hope is that in some small way, the care we gave made a difference.
Thank you Michelle for these lovely words about Barry.
🇬🇧 In Memory of Barry 🇬🇧
I first met Barry in January 2024, and from the very beginning he always had a story to tell. Born in Manchester, UK in 1942, Barry and his wife June moved to Perth in 2013 after their daughter Sara had settled here in 2005.
Barry would often share stories of his and June’s life together in the UK and here in Perth, which would usually send June off to find a photo to match his tale. They loved travelling and cruising and had many funny stories to share, especially involving his mother and mother-in-law.
He loved watching his favourite TV program Pointless. Being an English show, he was very good at it. Barry also had a deep love for his grandsons and his great grandson, who brought him so much pride and joy.
In recent months, as his health declined, many of our visits involved him snoozing (or rather, snoring) in his recliner. Even when he became bed-ridden, Barry never lost his sense of humour. When I’d help roll him, he’d give me a sneaky cuddle and joke, “I don’t want to fall out” with a big smile on his face.
The last few days of his life were very difficult for his family. I feel truly blessed to have had this time with Barry and his loved ones, and I will miss the moments we shared.
Rest in peace, Barry. You are only a whisper away. 🌹✨
Written with love by Michelle, Barry’s carer