04/07/2025
𝑨 𝑴𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝑶𝒖𝒓 𝑪𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒊𝒕𝒚
We want to acknowledge the deep shock and distress many families in our community are feeling in response to the recent news involving childcare centres in Point Cook and surrounds.
For many parents and educators, this story is profoundly unsettling. The alleged details, including what’s been reported publicly are confronting. Even if your family isn’t directly affected, you may be feeling waves of grief, rage, fear, or helplessness. That’s a very human response to an unfathomable situation.
We know many of you are wondering how to respond to the news, to your own emotions, and to your child.
Here are a few reminders that may help in the days ahead:
𝑻𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒔 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒇𝒂𝒖𝒍𝒕
You made decisions with care and trust, as any loving parent would. The responsibility lies with the individual who allegedly caused harm.
𝑼𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒓𝒕𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒚 𝒊𝒔 𝒉𝒂𝒓𝒅
When you don’t know what’s safe or what’s next, your nervous system is on high alert. Be kind to yourself. Pause. Breathe. Limit your exposure to social media content that may include graphic details. You are allowed to step away.
𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒂𝒍𝒐𝒏𝒆
Whether you're a parent, carer or educator, support is available. If you're feeling overwhelmed, confused, or need someone to talk to, please reach out to the services below, or a mental health provider in your area.
𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒅𝒐𝒏’𝒕 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒈 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒅
If they aren’t aware of what’s happened, you don’t need to bring it up. If they sense something is off, you don’t need to have the perfect words. Your presence, comfort, and willingness to be there with them even when you feel shaken, can offer more safety than any script ever could.
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭:
Bravehearts: 1800 272 831 www.bravehearts.org.au
1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732 www.1800respect.org.au
Lifeline: 13 11 14 www.lifeline.org.au
Parentline VIC: 13 22 89 www.parentline.com.au
Victorian Government Information & Hotline: vic.gov.au/childcare-centres-investigation
We see the pain, the outrage, the heartbreak. We stand with the children, and with the families navigating this impossible moment.
Be gentle with yourself, and those around you.
Warmly,
The team at Hopscotch & Harmony