29/02/2024
I decided I had to share this today!
It sounds weird to gloat about having a good nights sleep, but when youāve struggled for a long time and you know there are many others struggling right now Iāver decided itās important to share what Iāve discovered on my mission for the perfect nights sleep.
In my work every day, with my patients I ask them about their sleep and many are suffering through insomnia for many and varied reasons.
Just like the causes, the methods to correct are many and varied. Itās not a one size fits all approach.
I have been studying sleep in depth over the last year and looked at the latest research, read books and listened to podcasts.
I know the principles that research is showing we should be doing, but struggled to make it happen in amongst the craziness of mum life, running my own business and trying to keep some semblance of order in my home and life.
I struggle like many working mums to keep all the balls in the air!
I often feel like Iām at the fair ground bashing the frogs that pop their heads out, with a mallet. Just when oneās down, another is up, then another and another! There is no end to it and thereās always a fire to put out and that ever growing āto doā list you canāt get through and get 8 hours sleep, then start again with the new, bigger list, the next day!
I know the research shows we need 7-9 hours sleep minimum a night, with some variance between each personās needs, women needing on average, one hour more every 24 hours than men.
Once we shorten our sleep and reply on alarms to wake us, we are increasing our chances of many chronic diseases including diabetes, heart disease, obesity, cancer, dementia and mental illnesses.
The odd night of less than optimal sleep is OK, but not repeatedly, as over time, we will pay the price.
My New Years word for 2024 was SLEEP!
I decided enough was enough, I need to practice what I preach and start working on my own sleep and my familyās sleep. I have learned so much from experimenting to find the optimum conditions to score a 100% sleep fitness score.
When I was researching sleep I came across several men in their 50ās who were focused entirely on their sleep and going to great lengths, practicing bizarre behaviours to ensure they scored optimum sleep scores, in the quest for chronic disease prevention and longevity. Some of these are researchers, some wealthy business men investing to learn more, in their quest for immortality.
I have listened to them all, taken on board the parts I can manage, let go of the ones that are too hard to add at the moment, and I have found I have been able to turn around my own sleep fitness.
I thought I was fit as I exercise daily, drink lots of water, eat healthily, have yoga and breathing practices. However when I looked at my stats they were not good. I wasnāt getting enough sleep, even though I was trying to be in bed for 8 hours. When I had a busy day I would often stay up late to try to catch up on work to be less stressed the next day. This was counter productive and made me tired, grumpy, less productive and more stressed the next day.
I also realised my HRV, (heart rate variability, or variation of time between heart beats), was very low, indicating poor recovery and stress. Sufficient recovery time between exercise and stress management techniques improve HRV over time.
I have realised that sleep is the number one priority for health, at the top of the battery check, before exercise, nourishment, rest and connection.
Itās no good doing lots of exercise and eating healthily if your sleep quality and quantity is low.
If your battery is feeling depleted do a check and see whether lack of quality sleep is draining you.
There are many factors to consider in addition to length of sleep, going to bed early certainly helps, but itās not the whole picture.
For sleep quality consider optimum temperature, darkness, noise, mattress, pillow, hydration, diet, timing of meals, exercise, stress impact, to name a few.
Itās a fine balance and surprisingly takes a lot of effort, understanding, trial and error, prioritisation and consistency to get it right.
Check out in my history my sleep on Saturday night after the Taylor Swift concert!
OK, so I got 100% last night, I need to get off the screen and get my exercise and jobs done so I can stretch and do my breathing exercises to get to bed in time to replicate my results!
Let me know how your sleep is going and any tips youāve found helpful.
Happy sleeping friends š“