30/03/2026
I thought I would take the time this week to explain my name....while it may not look like alot it took me weeks of negotiating with my head and heart to come up with something that not only encapsulated the way I look at therapy but also be able to link back to what I spent years studying for 😊
After years of going through my own trauma, grief and loss and having people tell me to "move on" or "get over it" (not all), I found a meaning to it all and the way I coped with my losses. I will never move on, I will never get over it, grief and trauma do not work that way. I have a saying "you move forward" through the ebbs, the rough patches and the amazing ones. I have moved forward throughout my trauma, taking each moment as it has come to me. It has created the person I am today and the person I am proud of!
That is how my name started, initially I wanted to call it "Moving Forward", but that name was taken 😞 So I tried healing forward, a theory used in social work, again taken....then one day while on holidays, sitting in a creek with my
2 1/2yr old on my lap, feeling the water flowing around us it came to me! "Flowing Forward", it took on so many things I loved about therapy and how we flow through life like a creek, or river, somedays grief or life can come on fast, other days you flow along gently enjoying the way the life moves forward 💜
To me it also shows my spiritual path and how I came to enjoy being in a creek having the water rush around me, washing away the troubles of my day or week or month. How even the act of standing or floating in the ocean can have the exact same effect. Grounding ourselves in our lives through nature and the possibility that the air around us can also heal.
Flowing Forward Therapeutic Social Work came together through my past experiences, my studies to put it all together and give it meaning and purpose. To make sure that those I help, can see how they can move forward through their lives and that while those we lose and the things we go through should not be forgotten, they can come to point in their lives where they can look at that past, see how far they have come and how it no longer negatively affects them, smile and step into a creek, river or ocean and feel the troubles float away.