15/03/2026
When a client or a child in care is described as an "absolute angel," are we seeing a personality trait or a survival strategy?
In Episode 28, we explore Appeasement: the "tragic transaction" where a person trades their authentic identity for the safety of a connection. This isn't just kindness; it’s a sophisticated neurobiological map for navigating unpredictable environments.
We discuss:
• The Foster Care Trap: Why "perfectly behaved" can be a trauma red flag.
• Survival over Authenticity: Insights from Gabor Maté and Polyvagal Theory.
• Societal Pressure: How women are socialized to prioritize others' moods over their own.
Stop looking at the behaviour and start seeing the survival map. 🧠
🎧 Listen now: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5bVp3aRdmewC773dzfaFp1?si=0GkkunG4Rc6wYsgB6VBO8w
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