14/11/2024
Many of you know that my kids go to different high schools. It wasn’t something that I ever thought I would do - but it was something that I felt I needed to do based on their different skills, interests and personalities. My decision was shaped by talking to people in similar situations, school visits and interviews and working out logistics of how to get my kids to different schools on time. Have I regretted my decision? No. Are my kids doing well and happy at their schools? Yes. Are my kids jealous of each other’s schools? No.
I know many of my clients face similar dilemmas. Sometimes a current school can feel like a good fit but change over time. There’s many reasons for this - your child isn’t coping with the workload, behavioural issues being raised by the school or child, not enough supports being provided by the school, lack of friends, lack of understanding about your child’s needs etc. In an ideal world our kids should be able to go to any school and be accommodated for. In reality, that is not always the case. There are many reasons for this. In my opinion ALL schools would benefit from more funding from the Australian government to support our neurodivergent kids properly. Extra staff in every classroom would make such a huge difference.
How do we get our kids the best quality education they need to function as adults….and make it physically, emotionally and mentally in one piece? (That is my goal)!
For some parents this may mean changing the way your child receives their education (alternative ways of learning, smaller class sizes, specific focus areas, reduced restrictions for students who can’t cope with mainstream school routines/rules).
Some of these options (not an exhaustive list) on the Gold Coast include:
Home schooling
Silkwood School
Arcadia College
Mastery Schools
The Village School
The Industry School
Emmanuel College
Josiah College
Mob Academy
Mudgeeraba, Southport and Coomera State Special Schools
As parents you know your child best. What environment do you think your child will benefit from best? Hopefully an environment where they can thrive and not just survive!
All the very best with your decision making process.
Verity 😊