07/05/2026
Perhaps you’ve heard of this little adage. I’m sure when I first came across it a few years ago I read - one week in the bed, one week on the bed, one week around the bed. Either way, I guess 5 days feels more achievable in the modern world.
The pressure on post partum women in our western culture feels legitimately insane. Up and out in the world within a few weeks, coffee shops and beach visits with new Bub. Bouncing back into dieting and movement regimes - aiming to ‘get the body back’.
It’s a slippery old path and as my body grows, expands and changes more, I do find myself daydreaming and planning the post partum movement regime, without the literal weight of sharing my body. I remind myself: it can all wait. There is no rush. Be excited for the endless days spent in bed, being with self, babe, my man and the three of us as a family for the first time, these beautiful trees outside the bedroom window and the mammoth transformation of motherhood that awaits.
I’ve not experienced postpartum yet and I’m sure there are women who feel great soon after birth, still I love these old traditional ways of honouring the fourth trimester - the first 3 months post partum. In many cultures this includes ‘sitting the month’ or a strong focus on the first 40 days post birth. There is a saying in Chinese medicine that the first 40 days is setting up the woman and baby for the next 40 years of life. After childbirth, spending due time to focus on rebuilding health and vitality can help protect a woman’s health for the following decades.
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