01/12/2025
Happy 2nd anniversary to my wife, .gypsea .
A little story about how we met and our journey so far:
A friend recommended that Delphine listen to my podcast. By chance, she tuned into an episode where I spoke openly about my past relationship, what Iād learned, and what I wanted moving forward. She messaged to say sheād never heard a man express himself so honestly.
Naturally, I checked her photos and asked if she wanted to catch up.
Weeks later, we went for a coastal walk, talked for 2 hrs straight and grabbed my favourite chocolate peanut smoothie from Yelo Cafe. From there, we became good friends. Both freshly single, neither of us rushed into anything. Despite my attempts to hit on her, she politely friend-zoned me. I accepted it⦠But deep down, I knew there was more.
My housemates kept trying to set us upāinviting her over, getting her to my birthday, dropping hints nonstop. By Christmas, the dynamic shifted.
A few months later, she told me she planned to leave Australia to do conservation work in Bali. We agreed to keep seeing each other, but go our own ways when she left. I told myself that if she asked, Iād consider joiningābut I didnāt want to interfere with her vision.
Our relationship kept deepening. One day at the beach, she asked if Iād ever consider coming with her. I told her yesāif our visions aligned. I already had a vision board, so I checked it⦠and everything matched. The life I wanted, the woman I was looking for, the values that matteredāall aligned with us.
So I said yes.
I quit my safe career, told the Australian government I was leaving during a pandemic, and off we wentātravelling through Asia, Europe and the UK. Our relationship grew deeper; my business flourished; the vision unfolded.
Fast-forward to today: 2 years married, an 18-month-old daughter, and living 5 mins from the most beautiful beaches in Western Australia. Weāre living our dreamāsupporting each other, embracing love and challenge, holding space for each otherās ideals and flaws.
I never thought Iād get married, but with Delphine, I knew there was no one else I wanted to spend my life with.
Hereās to the rest.
I ā¤ļø you, Delphine.