
06/08/2025
LET YOURSELF BE HUMBLED
It’s easy to be “enlightened” in public.
To craft the perfect image.
But our buried parts usually only appear
in close relationships, behind the scenes -
with a partner, a child, a parent.
Old wounds rise up.
Unmet needs.
Fears of losing love.
The adaptations we built to survive.
It feels chaotic, messy, even “unspiritual.”
But nothing is wrong.
These parts are simply coming home.
Coming up for air. For breath.
For love. For inclusion.
They long to be held in kindness,
not pushed away again.
This is how trauma begins to heal:
as the false self slowly dissolves in love.
This is real awakening:
to meet every hurting,
every lost, shadowy,
“shameful” part and say,
“I will not abandon you again.”
Friend, let yourself be humbled.
- Jeff Foster