Defy Sober Living

11/05/2025

Happy Mother's Day to all your amazing Mommas out there!!!

Motherhood isn’t just about caring for little ones; it’s about caring for yourself, too. To all the moms who are juggling the day-to-day challenges while also facing their fears, tending to their wounds and growing into the best versions of themselves—this day is for you. Tough as a Mother, inside and out.

Are you a mother? Are you navigating substance misuse recovery? You're not alone. Check out our website at https://www.toughasamother.org/.

06/05/2025

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08/04/2025

04/04/2025

Defy Sober Living is gearing up to start the process of opening our 2nd house! We are so excited to bring another valuable, safe space to the Recovery Community. We are coming to all our supports to ask for help! Any amount of donation will help get us the supplies, furniture and household items we need. Check out our website at defysoberliving.com or you can donate to use through the following link.
https://givebutter.com/4uWINb

We appreciate all your love and support!

By Fight Song Recovery Foundation

01/04/2025

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30/03/2025

It's so beautiful to watch people take their life, power and story back.

26/03/2025

Doechii’s courage to be open about her recovery is just as powerful as her Grammy win for Best Rap Album.🎶 By sharing her dedication to sobriety, she’s making space for others to do the same.

This , let’s celebrate the strength in vulnerability, the power of healing and the women who pave the way for others. To all the tough moms embracing their healing journey: your vulnerability is strength, and your story is rewriting history.

You can find help with recovery at https://www.toughasamother.org/find-help/.

26/03/2025

Exactly!
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27/02/2025

What if loving yourself meant caring for every part of you, even the parts that feel messy or broken? The truth is, the parts of you that feel the hardest to love are often the ones that need your compassion the most; they carry the weight of your pain, your fears and your unmet needs.

These parts can show up as self-criticism, anger or avoidance and at first glance, they might seem harmful. But if you give them some understanding, you’ll see these messy parts developed in an attempt to protect you, potentially in the only way they know how.

When you meet these hard-to-love parts with curiosity instead of judgment, you open the door to understanding their purpose and begin to heal the wounds they’ve been guarding. Self-love means not pushing these parts away but instead, learning to listen to them, care for them, and integrate them into the wholeness of who you are.

Every part of you has a story, and every story deserves to be heard. Listen to stories from tough mamas in our community at https://www.toughasamother.org/moms-like-you/.

05/02/2025

Update!! Since we opened on 10/1/24.... So much has happened!
2 ladies have successfully moved out with their kiddos into their own places.
2 have moved up in the Family Court system in Adam's County.
And we have supported 2 more as they have beat the odds and have had their kiddos returned home.
It is amazing what happens with just a little love, empathy, accountability and support.
Proud is an understatement.
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