Batsholetsi Trust

14/01/2026

It is my personal wish for me and everyone reading this post that in 2026 may we meet our DESTINY HELPER. May we meet someone who is gonna open the door of success for us without struggling, someone that will actually see that we are hungry and say let us give this person a chance.
Where does one find magazines these days to work on their vision board.
December should actually be more suitable to design a vision board prior to the new year,so that the year ahead can know what to do in advance.

12/01/2026

A lesson not learnt must and will keep repeating itself.We repeat what we don't repair.It’s the same with people.,just different faces.
It’s called the echo;If you have not learned the lesson from the person who did you wrong.That person will continue to pop up throughout your life in different people you meet until the lesson is learned.
You will only attract that type person until you deal with the problem.

Appreciative Of Those Clients That Keep Recommending Us To Many Other Clients.❤️❤️❤️🌺

10/01/2026

This is the side of marriage they never tell you about when you get married! They never tell you that some days you will want to "un-alive" each other.

Some days you will leave home without talking to each other and get stuck in traffic with your number 1 enemy!
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10/01/2026

Let’s be real about why women don’t like their man liking other women’s pics or following them. It’s not insecurity, it’s embarrassment. When you publicly show interest in another woman while you’ve got a girlfriend or wife, you’re telling the world you like what you see. And that’s wild. Social media just exposes the behavior, but the real issue is respect. What makes it worse is they be quick to like and follow other women, yet struggle to compliment or uplift the woman they already have. A man who truly values his partner isn’t out here feeding attention elsewhere. If you’re committed, your focus should show it. Anything less is disrespect, plain and simple.

06/01/2026

Dangerous Female Friends/Frenemies

If we could admit it and pay closer attention,we’d realize how much women can be nearly as violent as men.They will befriend, lure, coerce,manipulate, lie,and betray in order to be chosen or approved by men,risking the lives of fellow women,even minors.

They will participate in registering organizations to s*x‑traffic unsuspecting girls and boys.They will earn the trust of caretakers only to vanish with a child after promising non‑existent opportunities for a quick profit.

Women will gang up on you for having your life together, poisoning and stealing your very existence,even down to your wardrobe or partner.Some will sell their own child to men for rituals,then act like victims before the masses,asking for donations.Others will trade their brilliant child’s destiny for their family’s prosperity.

And yes, in some of the darkest cases of gang rape,a woman has been part of the cruel orchestration,designed to humble a beautiful woman who dares to think she is “all that,"because all the men want her"

It is often during important life events,during gatherings,that women are known to strike.A pregnant mother at her baby shower may be poisoned or bewitched.A bride at her engagement or wedding celebration may be targeted.At parties celebrating new homes,cars,businesses,or graduations,women may plot to kill on the spot.Even at house parties,they may organize a group rape,then pin the crime on someone completely innocent.Making couples to fight,break up,break homes,marriages,or even leading to suicide,gender based violence cases.,killings of lovers,swap children,swap medical reports.,knowingly hook up someone's wife or partner with an infected person to avenge or due to hate.

A Motswana woman once claimed that her late friend’s house had always belonged to he,making these claims to her late friends family,after the friend passed away.She insisted that the deceased had only been renting the house.Much later,the truth came out,it was all a lie.

“Bestie.”Do you really have genuine friends?

05/01/2026

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05/01/2026

Appearing cheap” to a man usually has nothing to do with money and everything to do with how you carry yourself, what you tolerate, and how you value your time, body, and self-respect.

Here are the key behaviors that can make a woman come across as “cheap” to a man, even if she doesn’t realize it:

1. Being Too Available Too Quickly
• Always answering his calls/texts immediately.
• Dropping everything for him — even if he gives little in return.
• Rearranging your life for a man you barely know.

Value creates mystery. If he doesn’t have to earn your attention, he may not respect it.

2. Rushing into S*x Without Connection
• Sleeping with him too soon before any emotional foundation is built.
• Using s*x to try to keep him or win his interest.
• Ignoring red flags just because there’s chemistry.
Men often separate lust from value when it’s time to take you serious…. S*x alone doesn’t earn his commitment. So be careful

3. Tolerating Disrespect or Bare Minimum Effort
• Letting him ghost and return like nothing happened.
• Accepting late-night “booty call” texts.
• Making excuses for his rude or inconsistent behavior.

What you tolerate teaches him how to treat you.

5. Always Talking About Money, Looks, or Clout
• Constantly bringing up designer items, rich men, social status, or appearance.
• Obsessing over who has what and comparing lifestyles.
• Making it clear you’re only impressed by what he can give, not who he is.

This gives off gold-digger or surface-level energy — even if you don’t mean it.

4. Trying Too Hard to Impress
• Over sharing, name dropping, over s*xualizing yourself for attention.
• Pretending to like things you don’t just to seem “cool.”
• Competing with other women for his attention.

Men respect confidence not desperation. Trying too hard signals low self worth.

6. Flirting With Everyone
• Constantly seeking male validation, even when with him.
• Being overly s*xual in public or online for attention.
• Acting like you’re never satisfied with one man’s interest.

If he sees you as “for everybody,” he likely won’t take you seriously.

7. Posting Too Much S*xual Content Online
• Constantly posting thirst traps or explicit captions.
• Using your body as the main attraction on social media.
• Giving “free access” to what should be exclusive.

S*xy is fine but when it’s excessive, it shifts from confident to cheap-looking fast.

Bonus:. Chasing Him
• Double or triple texting.
• Always initiating, begging for attention, or trying to “prove your worth.”
• Not giving space or letting him pursue you naturally.
Pursuing a man who isn’t showing clear interest often makes you look emotionally cheap even if your intentions are pure.

Bonus:. Talking Badly About Other Women
• Being overly competitive, catty, or jealous.
• Always gossiping, putting others down, or acting like every woman is a threat.

Men notice this and many see it as low-value, insecure behavior.

BONUS: Having No Standards
• Accepting any man just because he shows interest.
• Staying in toxic situations just to “have someone.”
• Laughing off disrespect or pretending you’re “cool with anything.”

If you don’t set standards, you look like you’ll accept anyone and that’s the fastest way to lose value in a man’s eyes.

Final Truth:

You don’t need to be rich, famous, or flawless to be seen as valuable.
But you do need to:

• Respect your time
• Protect your energy
• Move with confidence and class

That’s how a man sees you as high-value not “cheap.”

04/01/2026

Pretty Privilege Is Real!Yes,The World Judges You By Your Cover.

Tell me you’ve never seen that man or woman who puts effort into their appearance get ahead in life?I’m not talking about qualifications here,especially if you’re not there yet.Haven’t you noticed how some people enter rooms and gain opportunities that even the qualified and experienced couldn’t access?The genetic lottery is real,and I want you to use yours to step through those doors,because why not?

A consistent commitment to physical health,dressing well, and enhancing your look with things like makeup makes a world of difference in how people treat you.Whatever you’re seeking in 2026,work on your appearance.Have you ever walked into a room on a good day,when you’d made an effort, and for a moment men, women,even children paused in unison to admire you?

Your appearance reflects your self-care.Without saying a word, people can sense your standards simply by how you present yourself.Studies show that those who dress better are more likely to be promoted.Appearance matters.How you move and take care of yourself mirrors how much you value yourself.It doesn’t make anyone better,but change this one thing and watch how many doors open for you 🤷🏼‍♀️

Dress for the opportunities you want.Dress for where you’re going.Dress how you want to be addressed and assessed.Make it a priority this 2026.When you prioritize your appearance, everything else begins to fall into place.Living a healthier lifestyle changes your perception,You feel better,and that inner glow radiates outward.

And Oh...Happy and blessed 2026 💚 Love you.

04/01/2026

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02/01/2026

No matter what has happened, seek peace with your father before his last breath.His blessing carries a weight that no pastor or prophet can replace.

It may feel unfair,chasing a parent who should have been wiser, more mature.But sometimes,the lesson is that you become the teacher,showing them what maturity looks like in the way you choose to handle them,even after they’ve mishandled you.

The truth is, the world can reject you just as harshly as your father did,Until he blesses you,until he releases you into it.Don’t let your mother’s version of the story be the only one you carry; there are always two sides.And don’t fool yourself into thinking that not knowing your father won’t affect you.It does.It will.

Yes, he may be flawed,broken,even a failure in some ways,but he is still part of your identity.For your own sake,get to know him, even if only to the degree you’re comfortable with.To know your roots is to know yourself.

Some of the battles you’re fighting now,He fought before you,or is still fighting.But you’ll never see the reflection of those struggles unless you’ve spoken to him,unless you’ve looked him in the eye.If the chance comes,take it.If you don’t know who he is, search beyond your mother’s words.Others already know. Find him.

Because peace with your father is not just about him,it’s about you,your freedom,and the legacy you carry.