15/04/2026
I think this was 1992/93 gone hoo🤔
The world has changed, but you know what, I will never change. There is a way I was raised. There is an environment I grew up in, one which had mosadi le monna ba nyalane, a.k.a Nuclear Family! There was warmth, nurture, support, provision, safety, security and order. I dont know what chaos is. Ga kea gola ke betswa okae motsdi o betsa sthodi. I was allowed to voice out my opinions and I was allowed to ask questions. My childhood was amazing. I was very sheltered. Where I was disrespectful my mother would smack me, not clap me, but smack me. My mother would smack me on my bum🤣.My father has never laid a hand on me. Mama ene e le ene wa lebogo😅.
There are those ba ba kaletseng ba ba nthogang thata mo social media. Some have even said I wasn't loved as a child🤣🤦🏽♀️. But you see, when a child is raised in a secure environment there is a way she/he shows up on social media. Nna kana ga ke roge ope. I simply challenge dilo tse Batswana ba di dirang tse nna ke sa golang hatlase ga tsone. What I challenge are things that are strange to me🤔. So today I just want to thank my parents for being the solid humans they were. Preserving my innocence, keeping me out of harms way, protecting me from diphiri kontle kwa. CHILDREN ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS....they are little humans who are to be guided protected disciplined and integrated for society. Bana o ba godisetsa rona the society to be potential spouses, bosses, politicians, leaders e.t.c 🤔. Bana ga o ba ikgodisetse, o ba godisetsa chaba!
Nna bagaetsho I was taught gore a woman is a gem, ebile ngwana wa mosetsanyana wa ikgabetsa. I was taught that our wombs as women are sacred ebile ga re diphakisi okae malutu. Le ha goromente are " Tsholang bana" nna tota I dont take such rhetoric seriously because in my world, how I was taught by my Father, ebile eseng mama, papa taught me gore marriage first, then bana! So who would I listen to, the Government kana the man who raised me🤔? I was taught to value myself. I was taught gore any man who wants bana le nna a nnyale pele because ngwana le REAL PARENTING, kana ke raa parenting ya mmantota ga se mme mphe bogobe. The values instilled in me by both mama le papa are engraved in my heart. Nna kana social media doesnt confuse me betsho. I DONT FIND MY IDENTITY ON SOCIAL MEDIA. My identity was given to me by my parents. Ke itshwareletse ka dithuto tsa batsadi eseng dirubbish tsa social media🤞🏽. For me social media is simply a tool I use to sell my business and to educate, lona lo e tsere ka mahatlha hela it literally controls Batswana😅The Bible teaches us that seeds fall on different types of soil......I was very good soil, I see that today in my adulthood. I see how well I carry myself.
To both my parents, thank you! May I always represent you well. Agatha Atlholang will never change betsho le ha lo ka mo ila jang😅. There is where I come from. May you never forget where you come from my darlings. May you raise bana lo tsentse moko mo nameng. May you love your children. May you discipline and guide your children accordingly. May you provide for your children. May you have children with people ba ba botlhale sentle eseng sengwe le sengwe se se go hang attention. Betsho, preserve the innocence ya bana ba lona.......Botswana o kaletse shem! Our country deserves better🧘🏾♀️
Ditlhako tsa Jet Stores🤣🤣🤣. Clearly I've always loved pumps with bow ties, 🎀 kwee 32years later😅 !
