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Welcome!
•Distance Reiki & Crystal Healings (people/animals)
•Chakra balancing & clearing
•Intuitive Oracle card readings
•Home & Space Clearing & Blessing
•EFT (tapping)
(Energy Psychology)
•Certified Trauma-informed

✨Healing body, mind, & spirit

03/23/2026

✨ Nothing ever really goes away until It teaches us what we need to know. ✨

✨ Why It Happens

Usually, when something keeps coming back, it’s because our default "software" for handling it hasn't changed.
If we keep reacting to a situation with the same fear, avoidance, or defensiveness, the result stays the same.
The "lesson" isn't a punishment; it’s just the universe (or our own psychology) pointing out a spot that still needs a little work.

✨ The Shift

The moment things change is usually when you stop asking "Why is this happening to me?" and start asking "What is this situation asking me to do differently this time?"
Once you change your response, the "lesson" loses its power to disrupt your life because you've finally integrated the information it was carrying.

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03/21/2026

✨ Navigating Grief & Overwhelm

Some loving reminders…

03/13/2026

✨ Morning Intention


03/11/2026

🤔💭 Nervous System (In simple terms)

Think of your Nervous System like a volume button or dial, for your internal energy.
“Regulation” is the ability to turn that volume up when you need to be alert and turn it back down when it’s time to rest.

Basically, it’s really just about your body’s ability to handle the “stuff” life throws at you- without staying stuck in a state of “freak out” or “shutdown”.

(It’s actually very often the “small” things that reveal a dysregulated system.)

Regulation isn’t about being “calm” all the time.
It’s about being Flexible.
I always say to honour your feelings- and that always stands.
It’s okay to get angry or sad; the goal is simply to ensure your body knows how to find its’ way back home (centered and grounded) afterwards.

03/08/2026

✨🌬✨
Drop your shoulders.
Unclench your jaw.
Take a breath that actually reaches your belly.

If you just realized you were holding your breath or that your shoulders were up by your ears, you’re not alone.
When we live in a state of high alert, our bodies literally create "armor" out of muscle tension.

It’s your body’s way of being ready for anything.
But right now, in this moment, you are allowed to soften.

03/06/2026

Grief is such an unpredictable journey, and there’s no right or wrong way to navigate it.
Here are some AFFIRMATIONS to meet you exactly where you are…

03/05/2026

Grief is the price we pay for love…

03/03/2026

✨ Celestial Event…
Total Lunar Eclipse
The "Blood Moon Reset" on March 3, 2026, is a rare total lunar eclipse that serves as a powerful energetic pause.

During this event, the Earth’s shadow turns the moon a deep, coppery red—a visual reminder of the "shadow work" and heart-centered healing we can do during this time.

Coming at the start of March and coinciding with the festival of Holi, this eclipse is a symbolic "hard reset."
It’s a time to release old patterns, settle the nervous system through somatic presence, and step out of the "doing" mode into a space of authentic "being."

Since we won't see another total eclipse until late 2028, it's a unique opportunity for our community to ground ourselves and prepare for the vibrant renewal of spring.

Key Takeaways:

The Energy: A "cosmic reset" for the heart and nervous system.

The Action: Focus on somatic grounding, breathwork, and gentle reflection.

The Timing: Early Tuesday morning (3:04 AM PST / 6:04 AM EST).

The Symbolism: Moving from the "shadow" into a state of aligned, authentic action.

02/25/2026

✨ Somatic Exercises to help
Release Stress & Stored Trauma

Connecting with the body’s wisdom is key 🔑 to gently releasing stored stress and trauma.
Somatic exercises are really about slowing down, bringing mindful awareness to your body’s sensations, and allowing your nervous system to move back into a place of regulation and calm.
They are so profound and effective because the body truly Does “keep the score”.

👉 Here are a cpl you can try right away…

👣 Grounding (Rooting)

Here’s a simple (yet powerful) way to bring your awareness back to the present moment.

- How To Do It:
If you can, take off your shoes.
Stand, or, Sit with your feet flat on the floor (If you can do this on the earth/grass, outside — that would be ideal!).

- The Focus:
Feel the Weight of your body sinking down into your feet & right into the ground.
Notice the subtle sensations- the texture of the floor, the pressure points, the temperature…

- The Intention:
Imagine that you have Roots growing out of the soles of your feet, reaching deep into the Earth.
Feel the Earth’s support holding you up.
You are Safe and Supported here & now.

And a little one that I love…

🦋🫂 The Butterfly Hug
(Self-Containment)

I love this self-soothing technique that uses gentle bilateral stimulation (which is simply crossing the body’s midline) to calm the nervous system.

- How To Do It:
Cross your arms over your chest.
Place your hands on your opposite shoulders (or upper arms), like you’re giving yourself a gentle hug.

- The Focus:
Begin to slowly and rhythmically tap your left hand, then your right hand, alternating back and forth.
You can tap as slowly or quickly as you wish- whatever speed feels comforting to you.

- The Intention:
This activity creates a sense of safety and of being held (contained).
It’s often used to help regulate strong emotions and to feel more present and secure in your own body.

The real key is to notice your body’s response and go slowly.
If a movement feels overwhelming—
just pause, take a deep breath, and come back to Grounding.

Remember, healing is a journey…
More like a Marathon than a Sprint.
Keep that in mind, and always be compassionate and gentle with yourself!
xo~Sabrina ♥️


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Abbotsford, BC

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