05/22/2026
I was sixteen the first time someone saved my life without trying to fix me.
I walked into that yoga class even though I wanted to hide. I was in a dark place, the kind that makes it hard to imagine a way through. My friend was afraid to leave me alone.
The teacher didn’t ask what was wrong. She didn’t offer solutions or tell me to “just breathe.” She made tea. Sat with us. Connected.
My Irish grandmother had taught me to make tea years before. It was comfort, even when words weren’t there. Even when no one said it would be okay.
So we sat. We drank tea. And something in me softened, just a little.
That teacher showed me something I didn’t know was possible: that my body could be a place of safety, not just a problem to solve.
Your nervous system isn’t broken. It’s responding. Responding to everything you’ve lived through, everything you’ve learned about safety and danger, everything your body has stored along the way.
It doesn’t need fixing. It needs listening.
In the free ebook (link in bio), I share the somatic practices that helped me come home to my body:
→ Grounding practices for when you feel unsteady or overwhelmed
→ Orienting practices for when you’re anxious or ruminating
→ Resourcing practices for when you need comfort or connection
Not to rewire yourself into someone new. To expand your options. To build new neural pathways alongside the old ones so that in moments of challenge, you have more than one path to choose from.
Every time you ground, orient, or resource, you’re not fixing a problem. You’re building a relationship. You’re telling your body: I’m here. I’m listening. You matter.
Welcome home. 💜
Download the free ebook: Coming Home to Your Body: Embodied Practices for Safety and Regulation (link in bio)