
07/08/2025
Ever felt triggered by something objectively small in your relationship? Like your reaction is bigger than the situation? Feels confusing, right?
This might be a nervous system response, not a relationship failure.
If you grew up with emotional neglect, inconsistent care, or unsafe dynamics, your body learns to stay on high alert for any indication of the same. So, in adulthood, your partner **seemingly** pulling away or expressing frustration can feel like a threat to the safety of the relationship or even your own personal safety…even if they mean no harm.
You are not **too sensitive**. Your attachment system is trying to protect you from hurt.
This is what trauma informed therapy can help you unpack. Learning to regulate your emotions, differentiate past from present and communicate more clearly.
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**This account is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Content shared here is not therapy, does not constitute professional advice, and should not be used as a substitute for mental health treatment. For personalized support, please consult a licensed therapist**
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