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Grit Psychology Inc Grit Psychology is a counseling approach that focuses on clients’ strengths and resiliency to over

04/21/2026

One thinking pattern that strongly predicts depression is called cognitive rigidity — the belief
that things are fixed and will never change.
It sounds like:
• “This is just who I am”
• “Nothing will get better”
• “Nobody will like me”
The problem? These beliefs shut down possibility.
Cognitive flexibility does the opposite.
It introduces one powerful idea: maybe.
Instead of assuming the worst, ask:
�� What evidence do I actually have for this thought?
That small shift creates psychological breathing room — and opens the door to change.
➡️ Next video: Why uncertainty feels so difficult — and how to manage it more effectively.

04/19/2026

Many people struggle with the thought: “I’m not good enough.”
But here’s the problem—your mind often treats a single mistake as a lifelong identity.
One moment becomes a global conclusion.
In this video, I walk through three practical strategies to challenge that pattern:
• Being specific about what actually happened
• Examining the evidence (like a defense lawyer)
• Defining vague, harsh labels
The goal is not to eliminate negative thoughts—
it’s to respond to them in a more balanced and accurate way.
Because your thoughts are not facts.

04/18/2026

Why You Should Stop Trying to Eliminate Negative Thoughts
One of the biggest misconceptions about mental health is the idea that we should eliminate
negative thoughts.
In reality, that’s not how the mind works.
Our brain naturally produces a wide range of thoughts—including negative ones.
Even trained psychologists experience them.

The difference lies in how we respond.
Do we accept them as facts?
Or do we pause and question them?
Mental health is not about having perfect thoughts—it’s about building a healthier relationship
with your thinking.

04/16/2026

It’s not what happened. it’s how you see it
Have you ever noticed how two people can experience the same situation but react completely
differently?
One person takes it personally.
The other shrugs it off.
The difference is not the situation—it’s their beliefs.
Our beliefs act like a filter, shaping how we interpret what happens around us.
When we hold negative beliefs about ourselves, we’re more likely to personalize situations and
feel hurt.
When our beliefs are more balanced, we’re more likely to interpret situations in a less
threatening way.
Understanding this can be a powerful step toward improving emotional resilience and
relationships.

04/14/2026

The Dangerous Habit of Saying “Always” and “Never”
Have you ever used words like “always” or “never” when you’re upset?
“You always forget about me.”
“I never do anything right.”
These statements feel true in the moment—but they’re usually not.
This is called overgeneralization—a thinking pattern where one negative experience gets
turned into a global belief.
Over time, this can impact your confidence, relationships, and emotional health.
The key is learning to pause and ask:
Is this ALWAYS true… or just how I feel right now?

04/12/2026

Why Your Brain Always Thinks the Worst. Your Brain Is a Drama Queen
Have you ever noticed how quickly your mind jumps to the worst-case scenario?

You make a small mistake… and suddenly it feels like everything is falling apart.
You don’t get a reply… and your brain assumes the worst.

This is called catastrophizing — a very common thinking pattern where the mind exaggerates situations and turns them into disasters.

The interesting part is that your brain is actually trying to protect you…
But in doing so, it often creates unnecessary anxiety.

Learning to notice this pattern is a powerful first step toward reducing stress and gaining better control over your thoughts.

Stay tuned for the next video where I’ll explain another common thinking trap: “Always/Never” thinking.

04/11/2026

The Psychology of Mind Reading (Thinking Trap)
Psychologist Rameen Kargger explains a common thinking error: mind reading.
This happens when we assume we know what others are thinking—usually something negative about us.
“They think I’m stupid.”
“They didn’t like what I said.”
“They’re judging me.”
But in reality, we often have very little evidence for these thoughts.
Most people are focused on their own worries, not analyzing us as much as we think.
When we treat assumptions as facts, it can increase anxiety and misunderstandings.
Learning to question these thoughts is a powerful step toward better mental health.

➡️ In the next video: catastrophizing and how your brain exaggerates worst-case scenarios.

04/09/2026

How Interpretation Shapes Your Emotions

04/07/2026

The Psychology Behind Believing Something You Know Isn’t True
Psychologist Rameen Kargger talks about how your brain can change your beliefs without you realizing it.
Have you ever said something… and then started believing it?
That’s cognitive dissonance — and it happens more than you think.
💡 Sometimes you’re not discovering your beliefs… you’re creating them.

04/05/2026

Why We Focus More on Negative Experiences

04/04/2026

Why Your Thoughts Aren’t Always Reality

03/30/2026

Why Feeling Rejected Is One of Our Most Powerful Emotional Signals

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