08/11/2025
When youâre in the midst of labour, itâs perfectly acceptable to set boundaries and make decisions that feel right for you. If youâre asked to do something youâre not comfortable with, a simple and respectful responseâsuch as âNo, thank youââis absolutely valid.
For example:
If your doctor says, âI need you to get off your hands and knees and turn onto your back so I can assist with the delivery,â you can confidently respond, âNo, thank you,â if that position doesnât feel right for you.
Or, if a nurse says, âOkay Dad, time to cut the cord!â and itâs only been a minute but you had hoped for optimal delayed cord clamping, you can respond with a firm, âNo,â and request more time.
Being assertive in these moments is not only okayâitâs important. This is your birth, your body, and your baby.
Itâs worth noting that many professionals may say things like, âThereâs absolutely no benefit to the baby in waiting more than 60 seconds,â when it comes to cord clamping.
However, research and birth preferences vary. If youâve made an informed decision, you have every right to advocate for it!
Be firm in your wishes. You donât need to bend to the system when you know there are benefits to waiting for the cord to be white!
Doula Leanneâs rant for the day. â¤ď¸
