09/16/2025
How we were parented doesn’t just live in the past; it shows up in our relationships today. The ways we were cared for (or not), listened to (or not), shape what feels safe, what feels threatening, and what we long for in partnership.
Often, what triggers us in love is our nervous system remembering those early dynamics. A partner’s silence might echo old feelings of being ignored. A conflict might stir the same panic we felt as children when connection felt uncertain.
When we become intimately aware of these patterns, something shifts. We can begin to soften the automatic reactions, create space for choice, and show up in ways that feel truer to who we are now; not just who we had to be then.
I love this work so much - helping people understand these patterns and find new ways of relating that feel nourishing and alive. If this speaks to you, I would love to support you in that exploration.