Krysta Szkarlat Psychotherapy, Counselling for Women

Krysta Szkarlat Psychotherapy, Counselling for Women Helping women heal. Anxiety, poor body image, low self-esteem, chronic pain. Using mind-body approaches to transform the nervous system. EFT/tapping.

I had the privilege of speaking at the Fellowship of Evangelical Baptists (FEB) Youth conference today! I got to teach o...
10/04/2025

I had the privilege of speaking at the Fellowship of Evangelical Baptists (FEB) Youth conference today! I got to teach on building a better s*xual ethic in the church. So meaningful to have these conversations and speak from my s*x therapy expertise as a believer! 👏

And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ... Phil 1:9,10

Posted  •  not all problems are yours to solve 🍓❤️ one of my favourite oldies ✨
03/05/2025

Posted • not all problems are yours to solve 🍓❤️ one of my favourite oldies ✨


Posted  •  This something Ive said to my clients for years. Our most primal need is to be held. Not only physically, in ...
01/31/2025

Posted • This something Ive said to my clients for years. Our most primal need is to be held. Not only physically, in the arms of safe people. But emotionally, spiritually, energetically, and mentally. To be held is to be met where you are, in what you’re navigating, what you’re needing, what you’re going through. But for many of us, we learned that there were conditions in order to receive this or that it wasn’t safe to experience it.

We learned that something needed to be changed within us before we could “deserve” that, we learned we would be dropped, abandoned, betrayed, or taken advantage of if we allowed it, we learned that there was so much required of us in order to find it. So often these same learned beliefs seep into our healing journeys and self discovery. We search for what needs to be fixed, what needs to be changed within us. Urgently seeking answers to the question “what’s wrong with me?” Only to find ourselves round and round in circles still longing for peace but chasing to be fixed.

But what if you didn’t need to be fixed? What if you needed to be held?

Held in what you’re feeling. Held in what you’re experiencing, Held in what you’re needing. Held in what you’re longing for. By others and by your Self…

To hold ourselves and be held involves self attunement: A vital component of feeling safe enough to actually regulate our nervous system and sustain it long term.

Posted  •  🙏🏼 This is why I say, so often, that we need to stay close to ourselves and — with help and support as needed...
01/16/2025

Posted • 🙏🏼 This is why I say, so often, that we need to stay close to ourselves and — with help and support as needed — work to find safety in being *in* our body. Because our culture will stop at nothing to keep us feeling like we are separate from our body, teaching us it’s merely a thing we need to control.

Body image healing is about many things, and it will never be the same person to person. Identities impact this. Trauma impacts this. Environment, medical conditions, culture. Yet for all of us, at some level, healing requires peeling back the layers of conditioning and unlearning the belief that our worth is tied to how we look. It’s about rejecting the idea that our body is an offering to the world — something to perfect or fix to gain approval, love, or belonging.

In the face of that, it’s about remembering who you are at your core—a person of inherent value, creativity, kindness, and resilience.

When we remember our bodies are vessels for our magic, rather than measures of our worth, we free ourselves from the relentless pressure of diet culture and beauty standards. We can begin to live more fully, focusing on what truly matters: our relationships, passions, joy.

Healing isn’t linear, and the world will try to pull you back into old patterns. But the more you root yourself in this truth—that you are not your body but the magic it carries—the more grounded you become in your truth. Reclaiming this is an act of self-compassion, and a path towards collective liberation. When you decide your worth is not found in your appearance, you begin to see others differently, too ♥️

*Please remember that this is IG, not nutrition counseling. I am speaking in broad strokes, as I can’t capture every person’s lived experience or medical conditions in a post. ♥️

Posted  •  In case today is that day - or save for when one of those days come up (we all have them). Some tips to move ...
01/09/2025

Posted • In case today is that day - or save for when one of those days come up (we all have them). Some tips to move through them and support yourself.

Posted  •  Hello dear winter ❄️ ♥️
01/07/2025

Posted • Hello dear winter ❄️ ♥️

Posted  •  Gentle reminder as we inch closer to January: the noise of diet culture can feel overwhelming, making promise...
12/30/2024

Posted • Gentle reminder as we inch closer to January: the noise of diet culture can feel overwhelming, making promises of “health” that often come with an unspoken cost to your mental well-being.

If your version of a “healthy lifestyle” feels rigid, guilt-inducing, or driven by shame, it’s worth asking: Is this truly serving me? Is this what I would want for someone I love? Is this how I want to spend my precious time? Does this feel warm?

Health is not about perfection or control, and it’s not about fear. It’s about supporting your physical and mental well-being in a way that feels respectful, kind, and rooted in self-compassion.

You deserve to eat foods you enjoy, move in ways that feel good, and care for your body without it coming at the expense of your peace of mind. Let’s redefine health as something that nurtures us and nourished us — not something that requires “will power,” restriction, or constantly makes us feel like we’re failing.

If you’re struggling with the noise around “health” this time of year, and feeling overwhelmed by how loud diet culture gets as we approach the new year, I want to send you so much compassion. It’s especially difficult if you’ve been working on healing your relationship with food, exercise, and your body. It can even seem like you’re swimming upstream, alone.

But you’re not alone. I’m here, we’re here. Take a deep breath, and know that you don’t have to buy into the noise. You’re already enough. ♥️

Posted  • .nutritionist It's time to stop the madness.Why do we keep doing the same thing over and over again?Because no...
12/02/2024

Posted • .nutritionist It's time to stop the madness.

Why do we keep doing the same thing over and over again?

Because no one ever tells us...
..that weight is not a proxy for health..that most people re-gain the weight they lose (and often more) after 1 year..that dieting behavior is the greatest predictor of future weight gain..that weight loss won’t protect us from a negative self-image.

But what if there was another way? What if food was your friend, not the enemy? What if you had the tools and support you needed to undiet your life once and for all WITHOUT feeling like you're giving up on yourself, or your health?🙌

Listen closely. ❤️ You are deeply worthy and deeply loved.
11/21/2024

Listen closely. ❤️ You are deeply worthy and deeply loved.

Posted  •  If it resonates, it’s for you ✌🏻🕯️🌿
11/14/2024

Posted • If it resonates, it’s for you ✌🏻🕯️🌿

Posted  •  [ART: ] Nature’s wisdom whispers: nothing blooms year-round. Be patient with yourself - your growth is a beau...
11/13/2024

Posted • [ART: ] Nature’s wisdom whispers: nothing blooms year-round. Be patient with yourself - your growth is a beautiful, ongoing process. Just like the seasons change, so do our periods of flourishing and rest.

🐝 What seeds are you nurturing right now? Remember, even when you can’t see it, incredible transformations are happening beneath the surface. Trust in your journey and give yourself the grace to grow at your own pace.

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