05/16/2023
When I read this quote, my immediate gut reaction was "Wow...but you have a point"
We could go down quite a few rabbit holes here but since this is Instagram, let's keep it short and succinct shall we?
First, if you are like the average North American, you are likely tapped into the news (whether it be Twitter, cable, or what your friends are sharing on their Facebook feeds). Most of that news is negative which keeps your attention to situations and events that are mostly outside of your control.
Second, internal change is hard. There's no doubt about that. If you pair attention focused on the external with how easy it is to overconsume and convenience of not moving much with work - you can see how hard it is to make changes to our day to day behaviour.
There's more...
If you add in the constant distraction of TV, movies, music, celebrity, TikTok trends, and how easy it is to get sucked into a social media consumption frenzy - where would you find the time or energy to eat healthier and exercise regularly.
There is so much that takes us away from the most important thing in this world: your health.
Without it, are you really living a life of fulfillment or are you just a passenger along for the ride and cheering everyone else around you on?
This is a little harsh, but it doesn't mean there's no truth to it.
One of my favourite analogies I've heard goes like this:
"𝘚𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘶𝘱 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵, 𝘢𝘳𝘨𝘶𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘨𝘰 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘫𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘧𝘢𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘮"
Sorry Leafs fans, I know this one stings extra hard - but when's the last time you fought for your health and fitness at the same level as you arguing and yelling about the disallowed goal last Friday night?
Point is, you have so much more control than it may seem. And it's not all your fault if you don't feel that way.
If you haven't done one before, try a time audit. Take account of where all your mental time is spent, not just physical. Where is your brain focused (or unfocused) for the majority of the day.
Take that data and start to make the changes you need to transform your life.