11/27/2025
Good morning!
Thank you for showing up for yourself this morning.
It's not uncommon in recovery to discover a newfound empathy for others, especially for other people who are on a recovery journey of their own.
We begin to approach our interactions with people from a place of love and understanding. We find ourselves willing and able to to listen, to offer as much encouragement as we can and to hold space for them to grow. We become beacons of light, a rock in a storm, in short, a friend.
Yet just as often, in our own journey, we continue to be insufferably hard on ourselves. We set unrealistic expectations, we judge our progress and we take our own brutal criticism to heart. We self-sabotage.
That's not very friendly...
Sometimes in life, things will just "click". We will recognize the pattern and clue into a behavioral change or "life hack" that will make our life easier.
So here's the hack: love yourself as you would a friend.
Once that clicks, peace will follow.
To quote my friend Nellie, "In recovery, we grow to become the person we needed most."
Keep showing up for yourself. You got this.
B