04/10/2026
Being able to navigate life while holding yourself accountable when appropriate AND maintaining self-compassion is a huge win! This is often difficult for folks who live with the impacts of complex trauma and chronic shame. Holding yourself accountable does NOT mean attempting to intensely shame yourself into changed actions. In fact, chronic shame can keep us stuck and prevent us from making change. Self-compassion involves recognizing that we are all imperfect humans and that we are worthy regardless. We can acknowledge our areas where growth can occur, without over-identifying with them.