01/06/2026
These are based on Kristen Neff's 3 pillars of self-compassion๐
1. You can mindfully observe and experience your pain without over-identifying with it. This can be challenging at first, especially if you have made it a habit to avoid completely or over-identify with painful experiences. Small practices over time can help create a balance.
2. Pain is a part of the human experience. Although we all have different experiences, we can be reminded and may find comfort in the fact that no one is exempt from emotional pain.
3. Noticing self-judgement is an important step when cultivating self-compassion. We often judge ourselves as a protective mechanism. We may feel that we can judge or criticize ourselves into change. This may result in temporary changes but it is not sustainable and often perpetuates emotional pain.
Check out self-compassion.org for more helpful information and self-compassion practices.
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