05/27/2026
Parents aren’t just managing their child’s big emotions. They’re managing their own at the same time.
Here’s what’s actually happening underneath the big behaviours.
When kids feel overwhelmed or out of control, their nervous system moves into protection.
It can look like:
Fighting — yelling, hitting, arguing, defiance
Fleeing — avoiding, refusing, needing space
Freezing — going blank, not responding, “I don’t know”
These aren’t behaviour problems.
They’re nervous system responses.
And the hard part is — your nervous system responds too.
When your child is overwhelmed, your body feels it.
Staying calm isn’t just something you decide.
It’s something your system has to be able to access in that moment.
This is the work.
And it’s something we build, over time.
Follow along for more on nervous system health for kids, teens, and the parents raising them.
If you’re ready for support with this, we’d be glad to connect.
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