09/12/2025
The world feels heavy right now…& I think the hardest part is how much grief belongs to everyone at once. A collective sort of grief…because it isn’t just personal anymore. Headlines keep stacking, each one heavier than the last…war, corruption, greed, assassinations, disasters, poverty, leaders that don’t lead, images & stories that should never have to exist. It’s like the whole world, as a collective, is bracing for the next impact.
What I hold onto is that grief shows up because we care, & caring means we haven’t gone numb or lost our sense of humanity. It’s also possible to feel the unbearable truth of the cruelty people are capable of, yet still notice that beauty is still present…even if it sounds absolutely crazy for me to say this right now. I promise I’m not one of ‘those people’ who preach toxic positivity or tell you to ‘just be grateful & let it go because you can’t control it’. That’s just not how the nervous system works. Trauma, grief, & stress don’t move just because you change your thoughts or your mindset. Your nervous system also isn’t wired to carry the pain of the entire world, or even much further than what’s in our own backyard. It’s job is to keep you grounded in what’s near, & that’s often where the beautiful ‘little’ things live…silly little ordinary things that are still worth holding onto, especially when everything else feels like it’s on fire…& I think this is how we give the grief we are holding in our hearts a place to go.
So put your phone down. Take a break from the news. Go outside. Hug someone you love. Look up at the sky. Give flowers to a stranger. Light a candle for those who are gone. Notice the flickers of hope that are still stitched into the fabric of this crazy, chaotic world & keep rising from ash. Break cycles, & be the change. Lift each other up, high as the sky. Speak your truth louder. Fearlessly fight for what matters. Let hope burn brighter than a world in flames…& let it all be proof that even in the darkest parts of humanity, love is still here…& it will always win.❤️🔥