01/17/2026
That question can say a lot about the health of a relationship.
When conflict becomes about winning, connection often gets lost. When the goal shifts toward understanding, communication tends to soften and become more productive.
In couples counselling, we often explore patterns like this. Counselling is not to assign blame, but to help partners recognize what happens during conflict and learn new ways to respond to each other.
If this question resonates, support is available.
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