08/26/2023
Happy New Year!!!
Yup! You heard me!!
Okay okay hear me out. Don’t worry, I am aware that it’s August! This one is for all the parents out there.
School is starting soon. 🤯 It’s a new year. A fresh start. The teacher is new, the class is new, the extracurriculars all start up again and we get back into our routines.
And don’t get me wrong, this can be a chaotic, overwhelming, intimidating and anxiety provoking time. For parents and kids. But it’s also exciting. And an opportunity to reset. To recalibrate. And to ideally approach it all with intention.
So, if you’re wanting to be intentional about how you start this year, maybe pick a few of these and really consider what might make this year the best one yet?! And no pressure, we can always re-evaluate in December! 🎊Consider this getting a head start.
❓ Think back on last year - what went well? What didn’t?
❓ When did you notice stress or tension at home? What needs to shift to prevent that?
❓What needs to stay and what needs to go in terms of routines, schedules, goals?
❓ Are the expectations you have for your kids realistic?
❓Re: extracurriculars - were they bringing more stress than enjoyment? Check in and ask your kids periodically how they’re feeling about the weekly demands.
❓ Has something really been working for your kids/ the family dynamic this summer that could be continued during the school year?
❓ Have your kids been struggling to manage stress? Emotions? Change? What’s your plan to get ahead of any mental health challenges? Therapy? Involve their teacher? Explore school or community resources? Ensure they know you or other family/ friends are available to talk?
❓ If you find the grind of juggling school and life’s demands stressful, what’s your plan to take care of yourself so you can take care of your kids?
❓Bonus New Years Challenge *What is your plan to ensure you spend at least 15 minutes per day of *quality time* with your kids?
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