01/23/2026
Becoming a Widow at a Young Age
P.S. I Love You - The Movie
The grief journey can be complicated when younger adults face the loss of a loved one, especially a spouse. P.S. I Love You, brings the viewer into the world of Holly, (Hillary Swank), a 30ish grieving widow, who has lost the love of her life Gerry, (Gerald Butler), as a result of a brain tumour.
This film, chooses not to focus on the Gerry’s decline and death, but rather it tries to keep an upbeat and lighter tone. There are no hospital scenes, but rather a Celebration of Life which has mourners paying tribute at a local pub, where shots are being drank and empty glasses are being placed upside down on a hand-crafted urn. More of a romantic comedy, than a drama, Holly’s coming to terms with her loss is the premise around which scenes are presented.
Gerry knows that it will take his posthumous intervention to help Holly through her grief journey and decides to leave her letters to help her move on with her life. It could be said that he knows her better than she knows herself. These letters arrive at key times, share messages of love and encouragement and are always post scripted with ‘I Love You.’
These letters help Holly realize that life does go on. As she ventures through the stages of grief, she experiences many epiphanies. How many letters are there and when will they stop coming?
P.S. I Love You delivers a contemporary message about love and losing a spouse, and coming to terms with a new reality. Its witty script chooses not to focus on the sadness that grief brings, but rather finding a way to cope with a new life. Viewers are sure to enjoy this approach.
“My life will be changed as I knew it.”
© Kaulbach Family Funeral Home/CFHC Online
2h 6m | PG-13