04/23/2026
Have you ever had a life pattern repeat itself over and over again? One that you thought you had dealt with, changed, done all the work on, only to notice that "here is it again"?
In a mini-workshop last night, I came face to face with a repeating pattern for me - boundaries.
The way it has repeated itself over my life-time starts with me allowing someone into my space whether it be my play space, living space or my working space.
Once I do this, events happen where the other person starts creating more space for themselves - usually without a conversation about the need for such space.
I allow this up to a point, have a bit of a conversation and, then, feel guilty about this and start allowing more incursion by condensing my space and my energy down to make them feel comfortable while I get more uncomfortable.
When I look back over my adult life, I can easily pinpoint the times this happened - not so easy as I looked back at my teen years or childhood. That's when I slip into doing a Body Code/Emotion Code session on myself to see when this began in this lifetime. No surprise that it started between ages 3 and 4.
With 3 older siblings and 3 younger siblings and young parents, the information that came forward through muscle testing didn't surprise me.
Shared compound (2 in the same energy cyst) emotions of taken for granted and crying. A despair anchor of 'something is wrong with me' held in place by compound emotions of wishy washy (flip-flop energy) and peeved. Lastly a shared heart wall compound emotions of shame and indecisiveness. All emotions that show up now when I begin to feel my boundaries being - I won't say pushed - rather not honored by others.
Releasing the childhood emotions helps bring more coherence, harmony and balance to my emotions and energies now. I did ask if there was anything else to release from this moment in time and let go of compound absorbed emotions of grief and dread.
All the information that was shown to me made absolute sense and I feel lighter for having completed this quick, easy session.
I can think about the latest incident of my boundaries not being honored by the other person and myself from a wider perspective now and can take steps towards this not happening again.
These tools are priceless for me and can be for you!
If you are noticing repeating patterns in your life that never changes and would like help with this, book a Body Code/Emotion Code session. This session can be done on-line from the comfort of your own home. As a bonus, you receive your own unique AO Tones to support the change you've made in the session.