01/12/2026
Today’s message:
The two cards on the far left-hand side is the spirit animal card of the pelican, and that is symbolic of wisdom, focus, self sacrifice, and nurture. And below that is the soul truth card that states, “how can I deepen my trust right now?”.  someone in the collective is being encouraged to trust and surrender. This person is being encouraged to let go or release control so that they can trust in the divine and themselves. They’re being asked to trust themselves fully so that they can improve and deep in their trust with others. Because when we trust this creates a sense of safety and when we feel safe, we feel unstoppable. With the card of the pelican. This person that is being asked to surrender and fully trust themselves in the divine has a lot of wisdom within them, and they have spent a great deal of time, nurturing themselves and others, but mainly themselves so that they can reach the point where they can fully trust themselves once again. This person at some point could’ve been self sacrificial for the sake of others and this person has learned the lesson that sacrificing yourself for the sake of others doesn’t really benefit anyone. You have to ensure that all your needs are met first and foremost before you can nurture and care for another person. It’s like trying to fill a cup with liquid from a cup, that is already empty. So now that this person has turned their focus inward and has gained the necessary, wisdom that comes with learning this lesson about nurturing self about being assured of self and taking care of yourself first and foremost, so that you do not put yourself in the position to be self sacrificial for the sake of others. The divine is urging this person to fully trust themselves because they have completely learned this lesson and they have everything that it takes to do what they want or to achieve what they’re trying to achieve. That they have cultivated a sense of safety within themselves and now they can go out and create that safety in the community for themselves and even if something doesn’t work out that they will still be able to feel safe because they will have created that sense of safety within itself and to know that they are deeply unstoppable in this journey.
The tarot cards are as follows, nine of cups reversed, knight of wands, the death card, knight of cups . Who remember this message applies to in the past they could have expected to receive the rewards without having to do the work. They could have expected things to just fall into their lap so to speak and that’s not really the way that the world operates. And even if you are able to do that, it is short-lived because there is certain expectations or skills and abilities that come with doing the work and ultimately you’ll only reveal the truth when it comes time to demonstrate those skills and abilities that come with doing the work. And unfortunately, having this type of mindset is similar to jealousy, but most importantly it keeps you stuck in a state of lack and this hinders your ability to manifest what it is that you want in life. In the past, this person could have been someone who acted quite impulsively and was quite confident, but also highly impulsive. Instead of thinking through what it was that they were going to participate in or joining in on a particular project without fully weighing in what the consequences of their actions could be in the future as a result. This person was filled with pure enthusiasm, but they needed to find some sort of balance and clear thinking in order for any type of project or situation to become successful, and that is what they were lacking due to this excessive enthusiasm and passion that they had associated with this impulsivity. And this reflects back to starting a project and expecting all of the rewards and accolades without doing all that is required to make it successful, and so this would cause frustration for this person. And this would probably cause some sense of distrust within themselves because they kept experiencing disappointment and these projects could even be failed. Relationships doesn’t have to specifically be like a project that they’re working on it could be working towards building a friendship or working towards building a successful relationship. But this person has realized or this person has already undergone this transformation an ending, and a new beginning within themselves. That’s what this death card represents this person is having a new beginning and has come to the realization or has already come to the realization about their impulsivity and how they were basically standing in the same spot, spending their wheels and not getting anywhere because they would start a project or a relationship or a friendship with such enthusiasm and then something would happen and it would be super discouraging, and that would be the end of it. When this person expected this enthusiasm to just solidify everything and it doesn’t, because this person wasn’t putting in the hard work and the energy and the effort to make it a successful project or relationship or friendship. This person just expected everything to kind of fall into their lap and get like a participation award, but instead of it being a participation award, it’d be like first place, and this person was supposed to be viewed as a valuable friend or a good partner, but yet they weren’t doing anything to reinforce that. So it’s like they were chasing a pipe dream because they refused or rather didn’t feel it was necessary for them to have to do all this extra work because they just expected it. It’s like they felt like they were entitled to gain the status or the success of a good friendship or the success or status of being a good partner and spouse just because they were who they were were just because they were them if that makes sense. In this person is realizing kind of the error of their ways and how arrogant that was to be that entitled to think that they don’t have to put energy or effort into building a successful friendship or relationship . And they can see where they went wrong and they can see that there is some very important changes that need to happen before they’re going to see any kind of success because they’ve essentially been setting themselves up for failure. And this repeated failure has been disheartening and makes them kind of not trust themselves and certainly makes them not really trust others because of the constant disappointment, but if this person is this impulsive and feels like they’re entitled to gain the recognition or the status of a good friend and partner or gain the success in a project that they’re undertaking without doing the heavy lifting, then they also would’ve been too arrogant or egotistical to think that they were doing anything wrong and so they probably would’ve continuously blamed the other person or blamed circumstances surrounding the project and their realizing now finally that that’s wrong. That they play apart and they’ve realized and recognized that they have a role in the outcomes that they’ve been experiencing. they can see how their lack of follow through has been causing these outcomes and how the lack of trust within themselves has been affecting their ability to follow through and to get the outcomes that they’ve wanted. But with this realization, they’ve begun to go within and focus on  repairing this within themselves and making the necessary changes so that they can have this new beginning and putting a death to the unrealistically high levels of enthusiasm or passion without any kind of follow-through or any of the hard work and energy required to balance it out so that it gives them a successful outcome. And so this new beginning there’s new beginning is an emotional new beginning where they’re going to begin to cultivate emotional bonds where they put the work in the effort in. Because they’ve realized that you can’t have a successful relationship with just pure passion and enthusiasm, that it takes an emotional bond for there to be success. That there needs to be some emotional groundwork to build a proper foundation for two people to come together and be successful. And so with this transformation of self, they’ve gained clarity and emotional depth, which will help them to solidify, successful relationships, and successful friendships because they will have the balance between passion and enthusiasm and building an emotional foundation together. And so this person is realizing that they need to trust themselves enough to open up emotionally to other people so that they can cultivate this sense of safety for themselves with others but also for others with them. Because probably with just this pure passion and enthusiasm, entering into some type of friendship or relationship was also unsuccessful because people probably thought that they were using them for something or they would’ve found them superficial because there was no kind of connectivity or bonding that was happening there was no deepening of the relationship. It was just some sort of passionate affair or friendship and eventually people grow tired of that. They don’t care to be a part of something like that because it doesn’t feel safe. Especially in relationships if there’s no safety, there’s no relationship because there’s no trust and no trust is basically two people spending time together because they’re afraid to be alone. And that is superficial and eventually it gets exhausting or tiring, and it either happens again with someone else or somebody does the work involved to change that for themselves and for this person in particular, they’ve changed it for themselves they’ve realized what it was that they were doing, and they realized how it was impacting the outcome and they’ve learned the lesson because they’ve done the heavy lifting and now spirit is saying you did the work you’re ready to go. You can go out into the world and you can create those friendships and those relationships that you want and you’ll have that safety in that trust because you trust yourself first and foremost and that is going to behave almost like a ripple effect in all your personal relationships and friendships.  and that’s not to say that you might not encounter someone that you won’t trust,. Because that will still happen, but you will have the necessary tools to recognize it and cut your losses and move forward and you’ll still have that sense of trust within yourself and that sense of safety within yourself.
Have a blessed day!
Aurelia 🪴 ⭐️ ❤️ 🌺
